MOVIE MARATHON DAY AT HOME!

MAN, i watched 3 movies coming 4 today!!
Wild Child, Picture this, Twilight and Beverly Hills Chihuahua
All super nice and totally loving it! And i'm sure going to watch Twilight in theaters.. ITS REALLLY AWESOME. so my kind of movie. I love drac movies or things to do with vampires. Maybe because when i was young i used to read and watch these shows. Anyway, Wild Child is not bad. really girly! Beverly Hills Chihuahua is all abt the cute talking chihuahuas. and all the other dogs.. and i'm now watching Picture this, another girly movie. :)

Well, i wanna take this time to apologize to MR BRENDON YEO! I'm sorry abt today! :)
as well as to take this chance to blog about a PARTICULAR MOTHER CHUCKER FRIEND OF MINE.

This friend, who is suppose to return my things to me today AND/BUT didn't turn up as agreed and being a MAN he should have RETURN MY CALLS OR MY SMS-ES. BUT.. HE DIDN'T! WHAT A BALL-LESS CREATURE! :(
SO, anybody related to him, reading this.. should inform him that since his going to serve the NATION.. can he please take some guts out to get back to me! OR IS HE JUST GOING TO STAY AWAY?! Cause ITS SUCHA DISGRACE FOR A PERSON LIKE THAT TO BE PROTECTING OUR COUNTRY!

Enough abt that Mother chucker, i'm just going to make sure i get back what's mine. !!!

BACK TO PICTURE THIS!




i would love to fall in LOVE with a VAMPIRE!

I was intending NOT TO BLOG TODAY due to my very moody day!
BUT THEN.. this video was sent to me, and i just cannot bear NOT TO SHARE! And to be honest, i'm feeling very guilty now! Cause i've abused this privilege that God gave me - WATCH THE VIDEO FIRST, I'LL EXPLAIN LATER....
(BECAUSE I CAN'T SEEM TO ADD THE VIDEO HERE, YOU HAVE TO CHECK THE LINK OUT) - PLEASE DO!!!!!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q58_1bCh2ig
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After watching, i think many of you will feel for these poor souls. And you don't, you're just heartless :(
Like i said, after watching this, i felt guilty. As many know, i'm a picky eater. I tend to make sure my food are my taste and so on.. but have it occur to me, about those poor souls who just want ANYTHING TO EAT AT ALL?!?!
Another reason, while watching i was guilty was because i always tend to waste food, either because i'm full or i'm not hungry or because its taste isn't right. Well, for the last reason you can't actually blame me, HUMANS REACTION.. anyway, whatever your reasons is, be it the same as me or BETTER REASONS you can come up with, i just think that this video serves as a remainder to all of us. The next time we have our meal, think of these poor souls and NOT WASTE WHAT WE HAVE.
It doesn't just have to be food or water.. but ANYTHING.. Let's just consider ourself LUCKY. not just lucky but EXTREMELY LUCKY -AT LEAST I DO!!!

MEMORY.MEMORIES.AND MORE MEMORIAL


Met up with M today. Had lunch at Fish & Co, High-Tea at TCC, and dinner at Donut factory!
Today was really CATCH-UP DAY! Although M was working and stuff, was still very fun! When she was busy working i was busy with myself -SHOPPING!!! I manage to buy my everlasting dream - not EVERLASTING but at least a week lasting dream - HOT SHOT DRAMA! For those who don't know, its this taiwan drama i've been catching till internet had problem downloading it.. anyway. yes, i bought it.. so i went to spend some time with myself and when madd was don, she joined me.. we were talking about the past and secondary life and clique and stuff. TIME REALLY FLIES MAN!
Just the other day, i was talkiing to Ross abt School life and then when i met up with K(scandal), we were also talking abt secondary school and today with Madd. Everyone misses it i guess. i guess is a time in our life that we go thru changes and stuff!

anyway, not going to chat much here. got drama to catch! Let the photos do the talking.















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LAST WEEK OF SCHOOL!

Its my last week of school! Followed by 1 week of study week and the following week with the EXAMS! - MY LAST EXAM! And then i'm done with this course. Which also comes to the decision of either a straight degree programme or advance dip!
But that also means its drawing near to the festive season as well as to me going abroad! - SHANGHAI.SHANGHAI!
As well as my LV christmas present.. hopefully a chanel handbag. And my camera on its way!
I love the new change! :D
Things have been going smooth for me. But not exactly for the people around me :(
Everyone seems to be facing with problems but i'm not. And when its my turn, everyone's happy!
Darn with life man!!

anyway, dad wants to bring us on Holiday. But its so different this year, cause i'm not having holiday till the 11th of Dec! Such a spoiler! Hopefully he postpone it, or i won't mind traveling alone :) [glees]

I've been trying hard on my project but i can't seem to get it done. I got it done at first but wasn't satisfied. So i trash-ed it and now, trying to come up with a better one. All i can say is that i know nuts about FIT. N-O-T-H-I-N-G!!!!!!!

Due to some issues, i have temporary shut this link!
will restore it back sooon!

I LOVE MY PURPLE HAIR. AND I LOVE ROSS! SERIOUSLY SERIOUS HORRR!

Went for lesson, was lost as usual and nothing went in my head!
went over to office, had a great time. I realize after dad came back from his trip he became very STYLE-LIO!
i'm serious. he wore this stripe shirt with jeans today! TOTALLY AWESOME. till i went back and said, sorry i'm looking for Mr Balan?! and his reply was, you're talking to him now.. and i told him, would you like to go out with me today and he started laughing. :D

meeting Scandal tomorrow for lunch!
lots to catch up on. :)
miss that babe loads man!!!



tired, going to wash up before heading to bed.
or else, not going to get in time to meet her *_*




P/S : I LOVE KELLLLLY!
Thanks babe, you made me feel so much better!

RECANTED SHALINDA!

Due to recent events that occur, i went thru a day fall nightmare. What seems to be real felt faked and after sorting my mind straight..i came to realize what a different person i've become. What my current friends see in me is different to the people who knew me before.!

Therefore, from today, I, Shalinda DECLARE MY OLD CUM NEW SELF!

It will be back to my straight-forward attitude (whether people like it or not..)
my old personal life theories.. PARTIES,CLUBS,FRIENDS, STUDIES AND EVERYTHING I USED TO DO.
NO DICKS in my life for the net few years, that does not mean pussy excluded. Whatever it is, NO RELATIONSHIPS!!

Some might ask, why the change?! To me, i have ENOUGH! Enough being whom i'm not! Enough pleasing people. Enough of taking the shit in. I think i'm made for giving shit!
Cause it seems that i'm caring for people life more than myself. And people who i place important in my life turns out that i'm not that important in theirs.

Whatever it is, i'm just gonna get over and done with Dip and run for a while, before any further plans!


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I LOVE SITI AKA ROSS AKA MY CRAZY BITCH!
I LOVE YOU TO BITS MAN!!!!!!!!!!!

Was a model for ROSS's friend today, now my hair is dark shiny black with purple patch!
AWESOME!
really love the new hair-do! and i gotta thank my partner in crime.. wanted a hot pink but decided on the purple in the end!


anyway, had a lovely day with ROSS. AND OH, I SAW IDAH! :D
But we didn't talk much! :) meet up soon babe!!!!!!!

i miss those ma-chicks!
and my ah-lian/hui buddies!!!

Nothing to blog about! I'M SO MAD AT MYSELF! SO MESSED UP!
I JUST WANT MYSELF OUT OF THIS COUNTRY NOW!!!!!

I had QUITE a fruitful day!
anyway, back to school tomorrow. and i'm going home tomorrow.. after 3 nights out!
am going to miss Gan Ma, (she's going back to shanghai tomorrow).. okay anyway, had a great dinner tonight!
anyway, i was freaking bored so i decided to blog on my most expert topic - MEN!
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MEN - Are you my type ?

When it comes to men, I usually have three deciding factors: Style, Quality & Personality.

Some men are cheap but yet stylish, and like obviously this is OUT.
I feel men are cheap, when they lie about anything,
from their background, occupation and education to their
social connections, just for the sake of dating a girl out for dinner - sad case
and this is, at least to me, CHEAP & LOW CLASS.

The word - Flirting
I guess no women can tolerate her man flirting with
another woman in the office or maybe in front of them.
Well for me, I wouldn't get jealous of his female "Work Buddies"
unless, his work buddies turns into "Sex Buddies".
And so, if my man feels that I take him for granted, and that he's
trying to hint or rather prove to me that he has other options
by showing off to me, then by all means Do IT!.. . just be it!

Case of the Ex
And if a man for no specific reason, ever scold or blame a woman
because we mentioned about your ex girlfriend...
then I suggest you better Fcking GO TO HELL and leave us alone,
and get your ass back to that fcking ex.

For goodness sake...
Men, Please ..don't tell us you love us, when all you think about
is having sex with our sisters, cousins, friends or even our aunt.
Yes I know, you may not act into it, but you're actually thinking about it!

Whatsoever... .
I hatred most, when married men taking up with another woman
and saying that they don't want to cheat, but they're slaves to their
own biology and its worst by saying, YOU are supposed to spread
the so called "seed" to as many women as possible,
so that YOU can make sure YOUR very own "species" stay alive. - fcking shit!
To be exact, men who cheat is define as cheap!

Alright, guess I m abit too OVER...
For me, I prefer or rather attracted with men who posses
good personality, that is gentle and nice, patient and understanding,
reasonable and yet thoughtful.
And I'd be very touch by my man, if he drive for 5 hours,
just to see me for an hour.
But I guess, no man will ever do that to me... *sobz*

Lastly, I can never tolerate any man to scream at me,
vent his anger on me or even nag at me. . .

Sorry, I'm abit fussy, but.. that's the fact.

I would prefer my man to look like this:

Basically, I'd prefer men to be as tall as 1.75 & above..
and ya, I prefer men with oriental eyes,
and the issue of skin colour is also very important,
as I adore men with fairer skin tone.
And please, muscular man!
Don't ask me why.. just like!



to be continue...

addicted to MISS NO GOOD!
shit, i'm so messed up now. i cannot touch dramas but i did.. and now i don't know how i'm going to survive.:( Tomorrow's going to be a very busy day for me, school-exam. Funan -repair lappy and then to Gan Ma place.

arrgghh, okay.. i think i'll carry on with my drama now!

Its been a week since i last blog and for ANYONE'S infomation, i didn't blog as i didn't have access to the internet cause my laapy was sent to the care center for repair. It had a heart attack and was treated.. and not because of any other reasons!
anyway, these few days has been very interesting. My blog count has increased. as well as lunatics who waste their time at my tag-board. GREAT TIME SPEND OF THEIR LIFES!

FIRSTLY, THIS IS TO THE PERSON WHO TAGGED AS "HATE YOU"!
I see you have loads of hatred in myself as well as my friends. If you hate me and my friends that much, has it occured to you that we don't like you either?! And you really are GUT-LESS! why sit there and hid behind that screen?! If you got soo much of hatred for us, don't bottle it up, come out and tell us OPENLY! This way, you'll earned respect for your guts! And as you mention that Evan's & my blog are crap and stuff.. WHY BOTHER TO READ! its not like you don't have a choice? YOU DO!
These are the things you said and my reply to you!
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Hate you : I don't know how come you and your best friend can be such asses together. Oh, I know why cause birds of the same feathers flock together. And for your information, your blog post are boring. your best friend banned me from her tag-board.. Why haven you. Aren't you both afraid people might know who the real you guys are. You both are LOSERS who should not be born in the first place. Both gossipers and reationship breakers. one word that describe the both of you is "*****es"!
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MY REPLY: why do you care why am i best friends with them? Its our problem.. and i know that your friends are people like you- a bunch of USELESS JUNK! if my post is boring, why do you still waste your time reading them? Its because that its interesting that leads to you reading it! DOESN'T THAT MAKE SENSE TO YOUR BIRD-BRAIN!? If Evan ban you from her tag-board that's because she likes to see nice things there.. and doesn't have time for people like you. In my case, i rather let you have the fun of talking to yourself and letting people who read my tag know that you're a CHILDISH, IGNORANT AND ATTENTION SEEKING person. That's probably because you're some loser who nobody mingles around, so being jealous of our attention we get.. you want to spoil it. But my dear, you're just wasting time! And we have live in our bodies for 17yrs. DO YOU THINK WE DON'T KNOW OUR REAL SELF! its YOU that don't know yourself! You're not GOD! who are you to judge if we should be born or not! Just like you, our mothers went through the 9mths your mom did. So should i say that your mum made a mistake to give birth to you for wasting time on blogs? Lastly. WHAT F-ING RELATIONSHIPS DID WE BREAK?! AND if we're describe as BITCHES.. WHAT ABOUT YOU?! - EVERY SINGLE NASTY WORD THAT WAS CREATED!!!
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HATE YOU : THE FACT IS I REALLY HATE THEM. TO ME, THEY'RE NOTHING BUT LOSERS AND PEOPLE WHO ARE UNREAL. THEY LIE ABOUT. EVERYTHING. MOST OF ALL, THEIR TRUE SELF. THEY TEND TO ACT ALL SO NICE AND ALL, BUT THEY'RE PEOPLE WHO BREAKS PEO0PLE UP! HYPOCRATES IS WHAT THEY ARE. NO WONDER THEY'RE BESTFRIENDS. TO SHALINDA AND EVANGELINE : YOU GUYS ARE THE WORST PEOPLE ON EARTH. AND THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOUR OTHER BESTFRIEND IS NOT INVOLVE. YOU THREE CAN REALLY HOLD HANDS AND JUMP DOWN. CAUSE YOUR EXSISTENCE IS HURTS THE WORLD. AND SHALINDA, WHY DON'T YOU BLOG ANYMORE? CAME TO YOUR SENSES ALREADY? THAT WHAT YOU BLOG R CRAP. WELL, GLAD YOU REALISE IT. TELL YOUR BF that. cause her blog is an EYE-SORE! SO FULL OF YOUR-SELFES HOR!
NOT CLOSE? BETTER BE! OR ELSE YOU WOULD SUFFER. AND IF YOU REALLY WANNA KNOW WHAT THEY DO.. ASK THEM. BUT I DOUBT THEY WILL TELL THE TRUTH!
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MY REPLY:
OKAY, I GET IT.. YOU HATE US!.. AND WE'RE LOSERS TO YOU.. AND PEOPLE WHO ARE UN-REAL AND LIE ABOUT OUR TRUE SELFS.. AND WE BREAK PEOPLE UP! AND THAT'S WHY WE'RE BESTFRIENDS AND BLAH BLAH.. BUT DO YOU HAVE TO REPEAT IT!? ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM SENILITY?
AND we are very nice people, we don't have to act on that! And if given a choice, i think we would wanna hold hands together and push you down cause YOUR EXSISTENCE HURTS US! Like i said, i didn't blog beacuse i didn't have my lap-top with me. And if Evan's blog is an eye-sore why go read?! And your reply to guest..(last sentence) : please, you don't know how fortunate i am to have friends like them! so SHUT THE FUCK UP! I tell you what we do - WE ROCK OUR WORLDS!
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I'm to lazy to copy the rest, but LET ME TELL YOU THIS!!
SOPHIA IS NOT A SLUT! SHE'S WAY BETTER THAN THAT! AND PLEASE REGISTER THIS TO THAT NO BRAIN OF YOURS THAT IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT ME. THEN LOOK FOR ME. DON'T DRAG MY BESTIES INTO THIS AS IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF! WE DON'T NEED YOU TO LIKE US NOR DO WE WANT TO LIKE A PERSON LIKE YOU. AFTER-ALL, WE DO HAVE CLASS IN CHOOSING OUR FRIENDS. - IN MY LIST, YOU'LL NEVER MAKE IT. AND ALL THE SHIT ABOUT YOUR GOOD FRIEND WHO KNOWS US AND HATES US AND YOUR FRIEND WHO SAYS SOPHIA IS A SLUT AND ALL THE OTHER UTTER RUBBISH, I REALLY SUGEST THAT YOU GUYS STOP IT! CAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR YOU GUYS TO BE WASTING IT ON US. ALTHOUGH WE'RE HONORED BUT I DON'T THINK ITS RIGHT! AND GO TELL THAT BOSS OF YOURS WHO SAYS SOPHIA IS TOO UGLY TO BE A SLUT THAT.. SHE'S TOO STUPID TO BE A BOSS. CAUSE SHE OBVIOUSLY HAS PROBLEMS WITH HER EYES. AND FOR YOUR INFO, SLUTS DO NOT NEED TO BE PREETY.. THEY JUST NEED TO PLEASURE GUYS.. AND GUYS BEING GUYS ONLY WANTS SEX. THAT'S ALL.
AND IF YOU FIND US UGLY, THEN DO YOU MIND MAILING YOUR PICTURE THEN WE'LL SEE WHO HAS THE LAST SAY? AND WHY DO YOU CARE IF WE HAVE BF OR NOT! AND YOUR INFO ARE SOOOO WRONG! REALLY WONDER WHERE YOU PLUCK THEM FROM! X_X
AND YOU FLOODING MY TAG-BOARD - YOU'RE MOST WELCOME. GLAD THAT IT WAS SUCH A HELP FOR YOU SEEKING ATTENTION. BUT FOR YOUR CASE, I THINK YOU NEED A PROFESSIONAL'S HELP! IF YOU NEED HELP FINDING ONE, LET ME KNOW. IT WILL BE MY PLEASURE TO HELP. SO WITH THAT, I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!

P/S : TO GUEST,
WHOEVER YOU ARE. JUST SHUT. CAUSE IF I KNOW WHO YOU ARE.. YOU'RE SOO DEAD!
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My last few days without internet connection was BAD. REALLY BAD! boring like anything. Oh, but i was covered with WORK AND MORE WORK! Accounts paper this Sat and nothing revised. I KNOW SHIT! LIKE PURE SHIT! SURE TO RE-MODULE! Geez, i seem to be so cool over that. My goodness.. Really looking forward to this weekend. Gan Ma's coming BACK!
And after tomorrow, i will be having 2 lap-tops. WHOOOLALALA..


DONE.

No matter what, you've got my back!

After yesterday's post, i've received a number of good views. Thanks loads guys!
And that made me wanna blog more interesting post, who knows, one day i might just be like XIAXUE.. sit at home and blog and cash falls into my account! - Dream shalinda DREAM!
before yesterday, i just blog on my daily events, from now on, i should be more useful and blog abt meaningful things. OK, that's crap!

Anyway, school today was insane. i went to class and teacher skip class. YES. my lecturer skip class. and he didn't say anything. The class waited for an hour and 25mins.. still no sign of him. Luckily, some smart ass went to the service counter to realize that he has been missing since morning! He is lucky that we're the "Bo chap" students.. or else. he kenna the smart pants ones. he sure kenna complain! [what is up with my english?!]

my stupid apple lappy is giving me problems AGAIN! i'm very pissssed off and i was told by this amercian guy to go down to service it. Bringing it down tomorrow and they better do it, THEY BETTER!

So, Barack Obama made history by becoming the first black U.S president. Man, although i'm not a politics person, come on, (i don't even red the newspaper), i think he really gives me the feeling that he would make a good president. Like he said, "The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep," With that, i think the citizens should be assured! Well, although he won, there have been news that some Whites are not agreeable to a Black taking the country and so on.. i personally feel that they should learn how to deal with it. Everyday eat Vanilla Ice-cream not sian ah?! must try chocolate what!
But elections all about the majority right? and judging by what i was reading just now, Obama had 349 votes and John McCain had147.. and the cut point was 270 votes, That goes to show more people love Obama than John.

Oh well, the lives of US.. So problematic. Not like us, we don't have to vote also know PAP will eventually win in all. okay, i think i'm getting too into all these politics. And before i even start on PAP which is like going to be super long i better STOP!

Patric's birthday is round the corner and Dad won't be around. Mum- don't even bother. I plan to do something for him but i'm still thinking. Might be bringing him out tomorrow to shop and all. Just in case on his birthday he has other plans or she surprisingly come up with something. All who know me long enough will know that i hate kids. I really find them irritating to the max. I don't know why, recently when i look at Pat i just can't help but feel sorry for him. H totally have no childhood la.
5Yrs old and have not been to the ZOO nor the birdpark.. not even to night safari or sentosa. All because his parents not free.
So, being his Jie Jie i think the responsibilities is on me. At least i should be thankful that during my time i had maids and grandma who dotes on me. So slightly more attention than him.


You know, I know, God knows.
SHHHHHHH!!!

Been back from my trip a day ago, and i don't know what to blog about it. The company of realtives were great, but the weather was KILLING. It was freaking hot to the max.. i had to binge on ice-cream and cold water every other hour! That must hav added 2kg?? into my body!

Anywayyy, was talking to K the other night and she was complaining to me about a guy she went out for a date with recently. And how terrible it was.. She felt so pissed off when he actually asked her so many questions about her ex-boyfriend.
(I simply find it so wrong to do that during dates,) and she felt like she was on trial for something. - who would'nt
Questions like, "Where do you met him"? "Why did you two break up"? and even when they went to a newly open restaurant, he would ask, - "Did you and him go here before"?

Like WTF ?
I mean he was behaving like a prosecutor as in keep on questioning her. To be honest, while listening to her, it just turns me off, and seriously this type of guys will never ever and i mean NEVER EVER make me fall in love with him. Doing that on a first date is like a BIG NO.NO!

There's also another type of guys which totally turns me off and very common.

For example, when dating he'll try to be very nice to me, like a gentleman and stuff like that. And when come to pick for a place to chill and relax, that particular gentleman will ask you to choose any place as he thinks that everything is fine for him.
But in actual fact, its never the case.

When suggest to catch a movie, his reply, - " Ohh, recently I've watch too much movies and I dislike to catch a show at night". And when suggest to go to East coast park, his reply will be, " Arghhh.. ECP will be too hot for me, and I can't live without an aircon". Alright fine, what about going shopping with me in the nearby shopping mall, since there's aircon? - His reply -, " Nope, it can be quite boring, since I've nothing to buy".

I mean its fine if you're unwilling to catch a mid-night show or stuff like that, my point is, since you are such a fussy person, why not you make the decision in the first place?!

And the last type of guy which totally turns girls off is a guy who constantly tells about his past relationship.

There was this particular guy who constantly tells me about his ex gf during our conversations on the phone. As in, even has we mention a place, example NANA RESTARAUNT IN FAR EAST... he will be mentioning about his ex gf, saying that, it was the place where he caught his girlfriend red handed, dating another man. [I know of all places, THERE!]
And when listening to songs, his ex girlfriend's name will be mention again, saying that this song reminds him of the past, and he constantly repeats it many many times. I mean, who actually cares about the fuck of your past relationship??? I know as a friend i will be listening to his problem but what if you did that to your date?! - YOU'RE DEAD!

I guess falling in love with someone is all about the romance game, where you need to feel love, loyalty, chemistry, butterflies and giddiness.. And having a great relationship is like having a fantastic dinner, with a delicious grill chicken of passion accompanied by a fine wine of romance and commitment. As it was like men concentrate on the meat of the relationship, while women get focused on the wine, but both want to get up from the dining table satisfied.
(no idea why i use GRILL CHICKEN AND WINE).. ACTUALLY, that's what i'm craving for :D

Seriously, Men can be real sickening.
And that's somehow conclude the reason I'd prefer to have girlfriends than boyfriends.

Anyway, I guess falling in love with men is never an easy task for me. As love isn't all about cuddly and sweetness. It's like sacrificing many things for eg, sacrificing time at work or with friends. And most men like being in control of everything which somehow turn me off in a way, :(

Alright, maybe I'm someone who can be real fussy about choosing the right one, and most of the time feeling insecure, and need someone to constantly tell me that he/she loves me, and by letting me know that I'm worthwhile, no matter the amount of confidence I've project. OH WELL, i'm just going to be myself- picky and fussy and wait for MY MR RIGHT! cause i know that that chance of Mr Right turning up is very very slim. Not everyone meets his/her right one in life you know.

i guess that's enough of my weirdshit, this post has taken up 30mins of my time already. No idea why i sundenly got into the mode of writing a long post on realtionships, i guess K's talk has really made me open my mind up!
OK, i'm hungry now, off to LUNCH*

Labels: ALL ABOUT THE GAME OF LOVE