Been back from my trip a day ago, and i don't know what to blog about it. The company of realtives were great, but the weather was KILLING. It was freaking hot to the max.. i had to binge on ice-cream and cold water every other hour! That must hav added 2kg?? into my body!

Anywayyy, was talking to K the other night and she was complaining to me about a guy she went out for a date with recently. And how terrible it was.. She felt so pissed off when he actually asked her so many questions about her ex-boyfriend.
(I simply find it so wrong to do that during dates,) and she felt like she was on trial for something. - who would'nt
Questions like, "Where do you met him"? "Why did you two break up"? and even when they went to a newly open restaurant, he would ask, - "Did you and him go here before"?

Like WTF ?
I mean he was behaving like a prosecutor as in keep on questioning her. To be honest, while listening to her, it just turns me off, and seriously this type of guys will never ever and i mean NEVER EVER make me fall in love with him. Doing that on a first date is like a BIG NO.NO!

There's also another type of guys which totally turns me off and very common.

For example, when dating he'll try to be very nice to me, like a gentleman and stuff like that. And when come to pick for a place to chill and relax, that particular gentleman will ask you to choose any place as he thinks that everything is fine for him.
But in actual fact, its never the case.

When suggest to catch a movie, his reply, - " Ohh, recently I've watch too much movies and I dislike to catch a show at night". And when suggest to go to East coast park, his reply will be, " Arghhh.. ECP will be too hot for me, and I can't live without an aircon". Alright fine, what about going shopping with me in the nearby shopping mall, since there's aircon? - His reply -, " Nope, it can be quite boring, since I've nothing to buy".

I mean its fine if you're unwilling to catch a mid-night show or stuff like that, my point is, since you are such a fussy person, why not you make the decision in the first place?!

And the last type of guy which totally turns girls off is a guy who constantly tells about his past relationship.

There was this particular guy who constantly tells me about his ex gf during our conversations on the phone. As in, even has we mention a place, example NANA RESTARAUNT IN FAR EAST... he will be mentioning about his ex gf, saying that, it was the place where he caught his girlfriend red handed, dating another man. [I know of all places, THERE!]
And when listening to songs, his ex girlfriend's name will be mention again, saying that this song reminds him of the past, and he constantly repeats it many many times. I mean, who actually cares about the fuck of your past relationship??? I know as a friend i will be listening to his problem but what if you did that to your date?! - YOU'RE DEAD!

I guess falling in love with someone is all about the romance game, where you need to feel love, loyalty, chemistry, butterflies and giddiness.. And having a great relationship is like having a fantastic dinner, with a delicious grill chicken of passion accompanied by a fine wine of romance and commitment. As it was like men concentrate on the meat of the relationship, while women get focused on the wine, but both want to get up from the dining table satisfied.
(no idea why i use GRILL CHICKEN AND WINE).. ACTUALLY, that's what i'm craving for :D

Seriously, Men can be real sickening.
And that's somehow conclude the reason I'd prefer to have girlfriends than boyfriends.

Anyway, I guess falling in love with men is never an easy task for me. As love isn't all about cuddly and sweetness. It's like sacrificing many things for eg, sacrificing time at work or with friends. And most men like being in control of everything which somehow turn me off in a way, :(

Alright, maybe I'm someone who can be real fussy about choosing the right one, and most of the time feeling insecure, and need someone to constantly tell me that he/she loves me, and by letting me know that I'm worthwhile, no matter the amount of confidence I've project. OH WELL, i'm just going to be myself- picky and fussy and wait for MY MR RIGHT! cause i know that that chance of Mr Right turning up is very very slim. Not everyone meets his/her right one in life you know.

i guess that's enough of my weirdshit, this post has taken up 30mins of my time already. No idea why i sundenly got into the mode of writing a long post on realtionships, i guess K's talk has really made me open my mind up!
OK, i'm hungry now, off to LUNCH*

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