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ThLifeOfSHALIN
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I AM LEGEND :D
Name is Shalinda aka Miss Perfectionist!
An outcast from my Mum's Hormones, that's how i ended up in this Earth!
I like to laugh. even @ my own jokes which is totally pathetic!
17 coming 18 on 25th September :D
Twinklestars_25@hotmail.com (msn/facebook)
shalinda@ymail.com (e-mail)

I can bitch all i like here CAUSE it's MY blog, NOT YOURS!
I Love Shopping;
I Love Music;
I LOVE ARTS;
I LOVE MY DRAMAS - korean, taiwan, Hong Kong
I LOVE MEMORIES;
I LOVE CLUBBING;
I LOVE RED WINE;
I LOVE PARTIES;
I LOVE TRAVELLING
I LOVE BUFFET;
I LOVE MY FAMILY;
I LOVE SLEEPING
I LOVE MY BFFs
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Being With The People I Love
I LOVE FOOD!
I LOVE MY CURRENT LIFE
I LOVE MYSELF
I LOVE SO MANY THINGS....
AND I LOVE GODIVA..
AND GUCCI & LV.. NEED I SAY MORE!

And this space is JUST WAY SMALL for me to fit every single thing I LOVEEE

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SaturdaySaturday, January 31, 2009
SHIT.CRAP.DIE.DYING,DIED!!

It's 20mins more till my Marketing paper and i'm having brain cramp! All the words are gone, i feel like escaping or should i say, i'll do anything to make the earth stop moving this minute!!

GOD, please save me! I really am at wrist end, still can idle around yesterday like i'm so confidence but NOWWW, I'm stressing. ARRRGGGHHH, THAT'S ME~!

Alright, off to school now.
All the best to ME! :) [trying hard to smile)



ttys
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FridayFriday, January 30, 2009
HELLLOOO EVERYONEE!!
Been long since i last blog, since last Saturday i was not at home. Was hoping around to either Gan Ma's house and Ah Ma's place:) and finallly arrived back to Wolskel Rd Thursday.
This chinese new year has been a very unlucky one, EVER SINCE IT STARTED. I lost my hong bao somewhere which was given by Gan Ma which i assume should be 100 bucks and above, considering the fact that the hong bao was THICK!! And then i lost another 60-80 bucks playing Ban Luck (blackjack) on the first day and 56 bucks on the second day. really JIA LAIT!
But still it was fun:D! Seeing Ah Gong and Ah Ma, Gan Ma And Gan Die, Er yi and baby and EVERYBODYYY made me happpy!
Been stuffing myself with food and more food that i got myself a very bad stomach ache. I think it was due to the steamboat that we had for reunion dinner on Saturday and Sunday :( Anyway, this chinese new year i met more GOD- COUSINS, and i even learn that Gong Gong's mummy was a NONYA! how exciting! But then i also heard that back in the days, people behaved very differently. They don't smile, don't laugh and are always very serious. ( Which also brings me back why Gong very DAO when i first saw him). hahahaha.
Oh well, in all chinese new year was great. Food was great to the point i'm having stomach ache (till now) and luck was BAD! I also went to catch 3 movies in a day. Watched "LOVE MATTERS", "WEDDING GAME" & "ALL ENDS WELL"!
I would strongly say Wedding Game is not worth the money and story line VERY lame:{
Love matters was very meaningful telling you that SEX is not all that matters and i think is really funny. But not one of the best Jack Neo's production.
And All Ends Well was hilarious but stupid. STUPID STORY LINE, but great entertainment!

Chinese New year over which means back to school, self-proclaim HOLIDAY yesterday so that i could stay home and recover but still i feel i need another day, but i'm going to force myself to school. Cause there are stuff i need to get done, Tomorrow is PMPM exam which i need to REALLLLY STUDY THE WHOLE DAY TODAY. Sunday is BBQ at M's. I totally forgot till yesterday. And then another week of school followed by Business Law Exam on the 7th, and Buffet Dinner with the girls. And then another full week of school and studies and then Accounts paper. MANNNN!

So many many things wo! And i so wanna go Shanghai! Alright, blog more later or something. Going to hit the showers now!




TTYS
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SundaySunday, January 25, 2009
Last post before i leave for Chinese New Year!

Wish everyone a HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR, with many blessings and wealth, and babies and health!
As for me, wish myself all the best for school and home:)

SO, i've decided that i will not bring my lappy to Gan Ma's place, cause it will be too troublesome. Moreover, i don't think i got time to use it. House Visiting for tomorrow.

And i wanna thank M for teaching me about Picasa.. I updated a new collage on my siblings which i adore so much:)

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To : _______

I'm verry happy that you're living your life well,and that you have come to understand what i was telling you all these while. I hope you'll bounce back in life and live it to the max and to your own way of life. :)



HONG BAO'ssssssssss


ttys
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SaturdaySaturday, January 24, 2009
OKAY, gonna make this as short and simple:)

Went over to Gan Ma's place in the afternoon, her Uni friends came over. It was 5 of them with kids and husband. As i was looking at them, it just suddenly occur that would such a situation ever happen to me? In a good way of course, like after so many donkey age, everyone still bonds and have mini cute gatherings. Laughing about their kids, talking about school days, about work and life. OH WELL, so after they left, we went over to Gan Die's side of family. Had steamboat with countless dishes, different abalone's, to prawns and vegetables. Indeed very filling. After which, we had wine sampling and all. Uncle Roger took out 3 different wines to try. ALL VERY GOOOD:)
After dinner, came back home and with style : MAZDA POSH.. MUCK. *_0

I don't think i will be blogging for the nest 1-2days. Going to stay over at Gan Ma's place tomorrow, steamboat again. :( It's all right to have steamboat but especially when it's chinese new year, i tend to get so sian of steamboat. But what matters is that family bonds together, and it's not like everytime, but once in a year, so i should just put a smile and remember that. Like i was saying, tomorrow's tuan yuan fan will be at Gilmon Heights. And then Monday will go down to visit Ah Gong & Ah Ma:)

I hope my Hong Bao this year will be around 200-300 bucks. Already considered very little, but looking at recession, i think still can lah!

I'm really sleeping now. Off to LALA LAND!!




TTYS
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Saturday, January 24, 2009
Back to PL today, got to see Mr tang.Mr Lim, and PST! Sadly, we couldn't get a glimpse of Mrs Wong as we were late for the concert and didn't wanted to stay long:(
Went over to City Plaza, had lunch and was there for the main reason to -SHOP! but, the clothes just wasn't what we were looking for, so ending up doing mani/padi for myself and eyelash extension for M:)

Was suppose to go and have dinner with Gong's side of family, but, i didn't make it:( I think Gan Ma's mad at me:( Hopefully, i'll get to pleased her and all by tomorrow. But there will be another Family Gathering tomorrow night:) I think i'll have to turn up for that.

PMPM paper is in a week's time which i need to start studying for. Will be going to chiong hard from Wednesday onwards. And then a break on Sunday with another week to chiong for Law paper next Saturday.. So many exams, so little time:D

Alright, i'm looking forward to seeing the CLAN tomorrow. Sayonara!!



ttys
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FridayFriday, January 23, 2009
Weird.Weird.
I can't get to sleep:(
i TOSS AND TURN, AND TURN AND TOSS, but my eyes just won't shut!

So, went to watch Bride Wars again. So loving the movie. And then i thought i might post some movie which i desperately need kakee to watch with! SO, if you want to watch the same one i mention.. you know what to do:)
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THE WEDDING GAME : (Not out yet) 25/02/09



LOVE MATTERS (NC-16)



ALL'S WELL END'S WELL 2009



EDEN LAKE



RACHEL GETTING MARRIED



PASSENGERS



RED CLIFF II



ANDDD THE MUST WATCH....

"THE HAUNTING OF MOLLY HARTLEY"



Although i should say its more on a thriller than horror show and the ending is stupid. BUT WHO CARES... Chance is acting in it! HOT.HOT.


SO, my movie picks for the month.:) And i know, its A LOT! Looks like i'll have to forgo half cause exams are coming and all:(

I think i can somehow feel my eyes closing soon. So i'll sign off here..


ttys
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ThursdayThursday, January 22, 2009
Class test was shitty! But i still hope i can get a 5-10marks:)
I was so mean at school today! Laughing at my classmate who was having a relapse.But i felt bad in the end and apologise. Cause it wasn't on purpose:(!
Excited cause i'm going back to PL for CNY! Well, not exactly to see the teachers, but rather the schoool!
And then CNY! - HONG BAOS!!!!

So far, dad says this year very quiet. So judging by that i know that sure very sian! But i still hope for miracle to happen:), and receive plenty plenty. So that my room will be decorated nicely. FIRST, i need to save for my mini fridge which cost $788+!
And then all the other minor things.

And i'm planning for mini trip with the girls. Maybe Bali or Puket. See the price and our schedules. But would love to have one:)

Alright.I'm preety tired after a long day at school and all. Going to go to bed early.



ttys
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Thursday, January 22, 2009
Can one live without friends?

Most of us, most of the time, would rather be with anyone than be alone. And when we compare being with anyone to being with a real friend, there is no comparison. The reasons are endless. Friends make the ordinary running errands such as eating lunch, entertainment, extraordinarily fun and the list goes on. And good friends are known for easing our pain and lightening our heavy load. They also strengthen us, nurture us, and help us grow. And without our knowing, they can even save our lives. Literally.
Not only are friends good for the soul but for the body as well. Friends help us ward off depression, boost our immune system, bring us back to reality when we are in outer space, catch us when we fall, and so on...

And there are also friends who belong in the"fair-weather" group who are the kind of people who walk with us in the sunshine, but they are gone when darkness falls. They take and take while we give and give, but we never see a return on our investment. On the other end there are the "know-it-all friend" who mothers and smothers with unwanted advice but never asks for our input. In short, friends cannot be your family, they can't be your project. But they can be your friends, which is plenty.

Real friends are few. The few real friends we enjoy generally come in one of two forms, both desirable and equally delightful. They are friends of the Road and friends of the Heart.

Is a friendship that fades away necessarily a bad thing? I don't think so.

Some friendships are meant to be transitory. Like cowboys who ride hard together for miles, sharing both dusty perils and round-the-campfire coffee, we all have friendships that come to their natural end. Not because of discontent or lack of interest. Simply because the road has run out. We've hit the end of the trail together and it's time to move on to other things, other companies of "FRIENDS"!
We must understand that these are NOT failed friendships. Not at all. They are friendships of the Road, equally intense, equally necessary, equally worth cultivating and treasuring as the long-lasting versions. We couldn't survive without them. They get us through a particular stretch of road, and for that we must be grateful. The friends we meet along life's road make the journey joyful. And they are just as fulfilling as friendships of the Heart. Well, almost.

Next come my Favorite Category : "Friends of the Heart"
These people sketch out my life, what i call my personal psychiatrist :) Some since childhood, and others in Secondary School! Together, they can tell you more about me than my Siblings. They are my real friends. They are the pals who know my mood swings and my family history. They've watched me soar and seen me fail. Unlike friends of the Road, these guys have stayed with me beyond trail's end. No matter how many months or miles intervene, the friendships endure. Our cumulative years of shared biography preserve our connection, driving us together on the same path. After years of tireless talks we now speak in shorthand.

One or two of these friends don't live by my life frequently now. But we usually meet during functions, weddings and while passing through each other's school/home! We also plan reunions on occasion, and a few of us have shared vacations. Long phone calls, as well as e-mail and a few cards or letters here and there, bridge the connection between long lapses. We don't keep up on daily details, but these friends know my headlines and I know theirs. We count on each other and we share an irresistible impulse to keep going together.

There's nothing like a real friend of the Heart, long-lasting pals who know us sometimes better than we know ourselves. They bring such comfort to our lives. It's nearly inexpressible.

Are friends of the Heart more important than friends of the Road? Not really. We need both. What matters is how a relationship sustains you right now. An achieved real friendship - of any brand or bond - is among the best experiences life has to offer.
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This post took me alomost an hour to blog about my inner experience and shared views. I just want to take the time to thanks all my along the way friends as well as my "Friends-of-my-heart"! I ♥ you guys!
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Tomorrow is BS test which i'm so not prepared. Going to sleep now, long day ahead!!





ttys




Till now, i'm confused of what you want!
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WednesdayWednesday, January 21, 2009
SO WELL-PLAN PRODUCTIVE DAY! - NOT!!

Went over to YING's place! INTENDING to study, but turn out to be playing session. We talk,eat,surf clothes,talk,eat and watch tv! AND OH, we dyed K's hair! ULTIMATE FUNNNY!

Anyway, i'm super broke and super tired!

Gonna keep up my sleeping time, target to sleep @ 1.30am today and wake up @ 9.30am+!

SOOOO, thanks liying for your notes, :)
AND.. GOODNIGHT WORLD!


ttys
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TuesdayTuesday, January 20, 2009
THE SUN RISE FROM THE WEST!
THE WORLD IS GOING TO END TODAY!
AND ALL BECAUSE....

SHALINDA SLEPT AT 1.30AM LAST NIGHT AND WOKE UP AT 10AM! ISN'T THAT AMAZING?!
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I was worried i won't be able to sleep straight after i hit the bed, but i was wrong. I totally knock out:) And i auto woke up today without the alarm, or at least.. cause Tina was making noise in the other room. Oh well, whatever it is, i'm so going to get back my proper sleep!!
Alright now, i'm kind of on a mission.. to get ready and be at babe liying's place by 12.30pm! OFF I GO NOW!!

P/S: BGFF, i think you were late to wonderland right?
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MondayMonday, January 19, 2009
I really don't know what am i thinking these days. Just last night, i was so sure school starts at 12pm and since this morning, my inner me keep telling myself class starts at 3.30..
AND SOOO,
i woke up at 1.50pm and saw Khai's message which says that she is in school. Freaked out i was. So, i gave up the idea of going school. And then Brendan call and say class starts at 2pm today.. LAGI WORST! But maybe i was too lazy to rush down and since that i'm going to miss half the lesson,might as well i find something more productive to do right?!
I call Nur up and ask if she could meet me to pass me some Law notes and all. Cause its high time i started studying. Chinese New Year on the way which means house visiting which also means lesser time to study and all! So i met her at Kovan, walked around, dinner, accompanied her to grocery shopping and then off back home. I already told myself that i need to sleep early. And also i'm meeting BGFF at 1am at the lalaland since i was very late this morning.
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Going over to Babe Vanns house tomorrow for some serious study session. Need her notes and her past brain-cells :)
Thursday is EXAM! FREAKSHOW MAN!

Alright, i'm so going to hurry and get into bed by 1am!!

SEE YA
TTYS
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Monday, January 19, 2009
I'm stiff bored now! Like ultimate BORED!
Was surpose to have Lunch and dinner together with Dad & Siblings, but plan change. Kathleen and Patric was having tution, l, slept from 7am till 5.45pm. Mel went out with his friends to play street soccer the whole day! Man, hell no would i do that. So, dad stayed at home and then brought Patric to his office once he was done with tution.
All was back home by 8pm.
So, Aunty was ransack-ing Patric's room when she found a black file which had our photo-shoot pics in it! Well, we took this photo-shoot in August last year. The photographer was Mum's friend, so basically it was just a very simple photo-shoot. With all of us, natural and all. And i would say i hate the make-up for this. So CHING-CHONG, thick make-up. I had to rub some off. But i love the hair-stylist. MUCK ** -PERFECTO! My curls were so define and all. As much as i want to post the pics up, i'm lazy of the long wait i gotta do!
Moreover, there's school for me tomorrow at 12pm which means i need to leave the house by 11am and wake up by 10am. Which also means that there is a 50% chance i might not wake up! :I
There's no school this Tuesday, which i'm intending to go over to Liying's place to get notes and get her to drill some formulas in my head of mine. School on Wednesday and then exam on Thursday! DAMN.DAMN. I swear i gotta pass BS! This is like my last chance! So, i think i'm gonna force myself out of bed tomorrow! DIE.DIE I MUST!
Although Brendan says that i'm not focussing in class, but at least i need to get a tip or two what to study for test! And then study myself! And these few days, he seriously have been pretty weird! Oh well!

After test period,its Celebration and more more stress time! I'm going to enjoy this weekend to the MAX! And then MUG.MUG for Business Law paper which falls on the 3rd! Gotta find that dusty textbook and start understanding every shit thing in the text! Oh well, I played too much this month, its time for important things.

After the papers, planned for a few drinking sessions with the babes. We're kind of goggling for places to chill. And i think we'll start with Chijmes! So that will be in the early feb season! And not forgetting my BUFFETS!

So many things to do, But all so cram! That's Life i guess =)

Alright, going to wrap things up and meet BGFF in LALA-LAND! We're going for late supper/early breakfast!


TTYS
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SaturdaySaturday, January 17, 2009
Lots of stuff have been happening lately! I guess it's all in the Game Of life! Shit happens :(
Anyway, its 5.55am and i'm typing this away! And i have to go to Tai Ma's house today. MAN! I totally forgot about it till i saw the calender. How forgetful of me. But honestly, i don't wish to. Cause i'm too lazy to move my ass and i'm sick of the TOILET TRIPS i've been making since yesterday morning. It definitely have to be that Mee Goreng i ate!
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This week is going to be so shitty! I have Class test this Thursday which i know NUTS, Chinese New Year on its way, Thank God, i don't have to spring clean, thanks to Tina! To think about it, i never spring clean :)
And then followed by more and more exams! SIAN to the max!
With the recession period here, i doubt Ang Bao money will drop by 20% compared to last year! (LIKE REAL I DID MATHS ON THIS)!
With people being more stingy on the money they put in and all. So all those young peeps like me, be prepared not to spend cause CNY ang bao won't be able to keep with the spendings. (Totally pointing to myself)!
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Little Girl-Big Little Girl-Little Big Girl

Certain things has occur these past 2-3 days or so, things that don't exactly involve me but to the people i care about! Anyway, that is something which i'm going to comment about.. in my HEART ONLY!
But as i was thinking about all, i ask myself..
- Am i happy now?
- Do i really have friends i can depend and rely on?
- Am i a good and trust worthy friend?
- Does my friends feel bless to have me around?
And others which are corny, and shall not be mention :) All these thinking made me realize that as we grow, or should i say as i grow, i find myself changing. Changing in my thought of thinking, the way i react to things, My bad habits, and even developing good habits! And during these "CHANGE" process, i have friends, and love ones by my side, although i did grow up by myself and all, i still could feel moral support and all. And that brought me back to Sec 1 which i experience a time of rough days at school and home, and i wrote something like this in the dairy i use to keep...

Dear Diary, (I feel so STUPID NOW)
I think I need a girlfriend who probably doesn't exist,
where we can share little pieces of secret together, or maybe
fight for hours and then laugh. Wearing the same dress,
dating the same guy, or maybe having the same hair cut....
(some edited and last minute version cause i can't exactly remember)...

but then again, this girl never exist.

And there was a time, which i thought i was BISEXUAL!!
Till to date, i still have people asking if i'm straight!

Anyway, life's a bitch....
You can be top of the world now, and fall deep the next!
And thanks to BGFF who was planning for more get-to-gather sessions, has made my mood for drinks to life up again after so long! :D
It's been a long while since I felt that drinking is good for the soul.And let me tell you, drinking is good, and in all, seriousness drinking is such an enjoyment and a connecting one at the same time. And I can't think of many other times when I felt better than, in the middle of an intensely ridiculous drinking night.

With that, i can joyfully say, i await for more excitement get-to-gather session!

AND REMEMBER FRIENDS,
I LOVE YOU =)
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FridayFriday, January 16, 2009
HAD FUN, ENJOYED MYSELF & TIRED!!

Forced myself out of bed today for school. Even though lesson was at 3.30pm,which means i had to wake up by 2pm, i still had to drag my body out of bed! That's how LAZY i am!
Anyway, went to school, BS was boring -AS USUAL! Slept for the last 30mins. And then went to meet "M" and BGFF @ Suntec! I was already at Suntec when BGFFBF message me that he wanted to surprise BGFF with a book! So random! Second time already! SWEET,SWEET,PEOPLE :D
And then met M and then BGFF. Went over to NUSS GUILD HOUSE! Entrance was so fine and grand.. Honestly, i thought i was going to rip myself BROKE! And just when M ask about the buffet which she planned for us to try... they said it was only available on weekend. So after browsing thru the menu, we settle for a 4 Course fine dinning!
So after browsing and ready to order our meals, the waiter then ask us for our MEMBERSHIP CARD! Which we don't have:Q
Story goes on and was allowed to feast there. We eventually made friends with this Waiter name ALLAN! Sweet human:)
So dinner was FABULOUS to the MAX! Never regret! And was having a long-lost catch-up time!
After dinner, we ask for the bil and it came up to $83.46! Well, for fine dinning i'll say it's pretty alright.. But you can imagine the heart crack we had! But still WORTH the buy! After that, we had cam-whore session(as usual) and was Provided good wind! With the air chilling and full stomach, i'll call it one of the best day of my LIFE! - Exaggerating a bit huh :)
But really it was great! Might come back again! This time for the Buffet!

Pics with M cause her cam did most work!
Will Upload the food we had, bet you guys going to Drool over them! hahaha
Wicked me:)

Alright, i'm tired! Leg is aching. Going to tune in soon!

TTYS
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ThursdayThursday, January 15, 2009
Disappointed and Happy and Satisfied all at the same time!!

Disappointed cause i overslept today and did not make it for school today :(
Happy cause i met BGFF & BGFFBF!
Satisfied cause I PASS MY FIT exam!!

So, initially was suppose to meet BGFF & BGFFBF after school today but the Sleeping Beauty me, woke up at 12+/1pm which was already class time, so instead followed dad to CPF board first and then off to meet them.
Today was simple, just EATING & TALKING!
We had Shilling za zi, Nana Thai, and BIg O's dessert!
And BGFFBF made friends with Rahul today! The waiter of BIG O! - ONE WORD TO DESCRIBE: HILARIOUS!!

I bought a nice green dress with BGFF. Apparently, we fell in love with the same one :), and did express mani which cause me 8 BUCKS ONLY! BGFF did hair extension. 4 strands! I bet she's washing her hair crazily! :) Cause we found out that the hair was actually HUMAN HAIR! And so, the aunty who told me its Horse tail is TOTALLY CHEATING ME!

So, to summarize, all was great!

School tomorrow and then might meet BGFF and M!

Here are the pics for today
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Our Lunch-din!







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Dessert @ Big O











TTYL
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TuesdayTuesday, January 13, 2009
I am SO HAPPY! HAPPPY FOR MY GFs!
Finally, everything is going to be A-OK! All the shit put behind and we marching ahead~! AJAH,AJAH,FIGHTING!

The second thing that made me happy was that i had my salad spree for Lunch and Dinner and they were prepared by.. ME! Yes, me! As most will know, i hate KITCHEN. And i can't even prepare a meal for myself. BUTT, today salad was done by me. I shall not take compliments for the cutting part, as that was done by Tina. But the seasoning and ingredients adding were done by me.. If you were wondering what kind of salad was that which is making me H-A-P-P-Y..
IT WAS... A SALAD... WITH...
1) AMERICAN LETTUCE. (sounds Grand but was cheap..$2.20)
2) Tomatoes
3) Popcorn chicken
4) Bacon
5) cheddar cheese
6) Salad Sauce,
andddd
7) The secret ingredient... SALAD DRESSING FROM ITALY! The brand i forgot.
AND THEN YOU MIXED THEM WELL!!!
TADAH. MY LUNCH AND DINNER DONE BY ME:D
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I was reading the Yahoo news and came across this.. "Australia offers 'best job in world' on paradise island"!!
Basically, the article tells that Australian is offering what they call to be "the best job in the world". And all you need to do on the job is to laze around a beautiful tropical island for six months. How cool is that?! And the salary is 150,000 Australian dollars which is 105,000 US dollars, and they include free airfares from the winner's home country to Hamilton Island on the Great Barrier Reef but in return, the "island caretaker" will be expected to stroll the white sands, snorkel the reef, take care of "a few minor tasks" (sounds like a catch) and report to a global audience via weekly blogs, photo diaries and video updates.. This is like too good to be true la! What a very relaxing fine job! If i can swim and all, i would love to apply!
Now, world facing economy crisis and still come up with all these stupid ways to throw money! Haiz. So Bo-liao!
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Had a nice talk with BGFF,M,KELVIN AND HONEY!

"Someone" came and ask me one very sober question:
“What are the three most important things in your life“?

Without the slightest hesitation , I said something that all of us will agree, which is..
Life, Love and Money are the most important things in this world.

Without life the world will have no apparent meaning?
Without life, we wouldn’t be enjoy eating good stuff,watching dramas, shopping, singing Ktv or even blogging?
My formula for living is quite simple.
You see, I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night.
Haa.. Craps….

Love?
I don't know why i said that but i guess that's like another human factor.
To me, LOVE comes from my Family,Friends and people i'm close with.
So LOVE is the very essence of this world.
It's like, Life is the flower then Love shall be the honey.
Love makes life so confusing, but I guess no one can live without Love?
Just don't forget to love yourself!

Yes, Money… (Money money... I love money..)
And people who says money isn't that important, YOU'RE WRONG!!!
We may never realize how important Money is to us until we're in need of it! Like when my Family nearly became BANKRUPT!
Anyway, Money just talks !!!!
With money, I can buy CLOTHES, diamonds,cars,house and not forgetting more Drama Serials!
With money I can stayed in fine hotels, tour the world, release my very own album......(pls don't dream...)
SO MONEY IS IMPORTANT!

Without LIFE there will be no LOVE,
Without LOVE, there will be no use for MONEY!
And without MONEY, there will be no use for LIFE AND LOVE!

What a wonderful theory i've written! :D
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Well, that's about for now, more to blog tomorrow!!
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Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Firstly, i broke my salad Record! Had Salad for 3 meals already - 2 lunch,1 dinner! But i broke it last night, By eating Kway Teow! This Tina (Helper/Maid) la, go and cook when she knows i'm on salad diet! So going to start all over again! Starting from today :D
D-E-T-E-R-M-I-N-A-T-I-O-N.. is what i need :D

Secondly, went for Statistic class yesterday. Pretty alright. But poor Brendan had to explain over and over again to me..Cause i suffer from Short-term memory :( So whatever he thought me last week disappeared with the dreams i have every night. I'm going to revise all today so that i can store the next set of Chapter in my head tomorrow! Meeting BGFF and BGFF(BF) tomorrow after school!

Thirdly, i can't keep up with my temptation of NOT watching Drama Serials. It has become such a habit that now, when i'm resisting it, the devil in me tells me otherwise.. And its SERIOUSLY SERIOUS very VERY TEMPTING! And to top things on, Honey told me to go watch "The L Word"! :(



Its a Very popular English Drama but its age group target are for the more matured adults. Or should i say adults like Honey who are OLD-er!! hahahaha. So back to topic, I CAN'T SEEM TO GET THIS ADDICTION OUTTA MY LIFE!!!
Everytime i turn on the net, after checking my mails, visiting facebook, blogging.. i always have the urge to go watch serials!
BAD.BAD.HABIT HUH!


So, i really want to contiune blogging, but my eyes are getting very heavy. I better hit lala land or else i don't know when the next urge to sleep will come!


GOOD-MORNING FOLKS!

TTYS!
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SundaySunday, January 11, 2009
I'm getting way lazy NOW!
These past few days, i have been sleeping @ 6am and waking up at 5/6pm. TERRIBLE! And now, this has become a habit! A VERY VERY BAD HABIT!!!
Anyway, back to school tomorrow! And i think i have to find self-discipline to control my bad habit! And i just realize that my school for this week is 4 TIMES?!! GEEZ!
SO, loads of things to get thru this head of mine this week. And i have a FREAKING class test next week! Like helllo. school has just started a week ago and class test already?!
ENOUGH OF SCHOOL.........

Was watching SAYANG SAYANG just now! HILARIOUS LA!


I'm feeling that there's nothing to blog much today. Just that, i'm LAZY and i have gone on a SALAD SPREE! Yes, you've read it correctly, -"SALAD SPREE"!! All thanks to Kelvin who dared me to go 1 week Salad. So, Salad, for Lunch and Dinner and supper! Don't know if i can handle it but should be fine i guess! :)

*I SWAP A BF FOR A BGFF*! :)


TTYS
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FridayFriday, January 09, 2009
I didn't blog yesterday as i was feeling tired and lazy! Brain cells were not working and was TOTAALY not feeling well :(

But i still enjoyed myself pretty well :D
Met the girls up yesterday - Vanns,Madd,Kerrie and Jasmine.
Went to catch the show "BEDTIME STORIES" with Vanns and Madd.. and then dinner at NANA THAI. Jas had to leave so left the 4 of us... Started cam-whoring in the toilet, as we walk, at the sex shop banner.. MADDNESS!
What was even madder was that as we were on our way to ISTANA for more cam-whore..we stopped by this art Gallery on the walk-way from Far east to the Mrt.. and Vanns suggested going in.. And out of no-where i was the impromptu model. Vanns and Madd were on with their Camera, and kerrie with mine! And WORST of all was that everyone who walked was staring at us. Or at least - ME?!

Anyway, after sending kerrie off and continuing on our way to ISTANA.. we droped by HEEREN and thought of having Dessert! So, we went to NYDC. All ordered and share.. and then went back home!

Fun day, but a pity BF Sophia didn't join us:(

Okay, since i'm such in a good mood, i shall upload some pics as i just manage to transfer to my com last night!
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This was taken at Vanns on Christmas...









And these were taken @ vanns on Countdown to 2009!









And these were taken @ the gathering yesterday!

















And the BEST PART WERE THE DESSERT-toh!!









That was long uploading all the pics. But looking back, i think i really am fortunate to have met the girls. All important to me in my HEARTS! No pics of Jas because that ZAR BO very busy with both work and Boyfriend:(
But still, I LOVE HER:D

Andddd, i finally finish watch Sweet Relationship! So starting from tomorrow i'm going to start mugging. No more drama drama.. all STOP! Stop till i get over and done with DIP first. After that, then i'll see how! Probably, i will catch a few, just to pamper myself. Anyway, if i want to retire by 35, i have to start working hard!

Don't wish to SLUG all the way till 50s/60s.. EWWW! No life!

JIA YOU SHALINDA!
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WednesdayWednesday, January 07, 2009
A very TIRING but well-spent day!!


School in the afternoon @ 3.30pm (SHIOK), met Madd in school. And we're going to be school mates starting from next Week:)
Although we won't get to see each other much for this month.. cause our class crashes but What the heck!!

Manage to get Summary Statistics in my head today.. thanks to GF! But he is the fiercest Teacher ever!!! Was in so much of pressure:Q!

Met Nur after school, and she gave us a treat to swensen. :D
Went to Puggol end for the VERY FIRST TIME. Sea was great, breeze was strong, but mood just wasn't quite there! Probably, because i was too tired!

Off to shower and then continue on my Taiwan Drama.. Target to finish watching it by This Sunday so that i can concentrate on my studies! - NOW EVERYONE GOES.. "LIKE REAL"!


ttys
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TuesdayTuesday, January 06, 2009
I don't know what day today is but it really looks like JOKE DAY!

Was surpose to have Ross over to help me with my hair and then cam-work in the afternoon, but sadly her mama was sick so she had to look after her. :(
GET WELL SOON AUNTY!

So, i idled the whole day by watching my HK drama - MY WAR IN LAWS, which i finally finish watching:) And people who are FANS of HK dramas should sure catch this show. About a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law fighting and getting the son/husband caught in-between! - GREAT SHOW!

And just when i went to check my mails, Su sent me this MEGA,ULTRA, FUNNY JOKE!
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A little girl runs out to the backyard where her father is working, and asks him, "Daddy, what's sex?"

Her father sits her down, and tells her all about the birds and the bees. He tells her about conception, sexual intercourse, sperms and eggs. He goes on to tell her about puberty, menstruation, erections, wet-dreams...and he thinks, what the hell, and goes on to tell her the works.

He covers a wide and varied assortment of sub topics and by the time he's finished, his daughter is somewhat awestruck with this sudden influx of bizarre new knowledge. Her father finally asks: "So what did you want to know about sex for?"

"Oh, mommy said to tell you lunch would be ready in a couple of secs..."

HAHAHAHAAHA. Tell you, i read this e-mail i think 10times already! About 3-4 times to myself to get me laughing non-stop and the rest to people who call me today :(
I told this to Melvin and he thought i was crazy and put down my phone. What a all-mannered brother i have!!

And i came across another e-mail by Su which was sent ages ago.. This e-mail is not exactly the same which i recieved, as i added a few lines in it.. MAKE IT MORE SPICEY TO READ LA ;)
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The perfect man loves you for you and not just one tiny part.
The perfect man would sacrifice everything for you.
The perfect man isn't afraid to tell you the truth.
The perfect man is kind, sweet, funny,and loving.
The perfect man can make you crumble with one glance.
The perfect man can make you feel unlike you've ever felt before.
The perfect man knows he's perfect, but won't ever admit it.
The perfect man has a smile that lights up a room.
The perfect man will admit when he's wrong.
The perfect man won't admit when he's right.
The perfect man would never say anything that makes you feel like less of a person.
The perfect man has his beliefs, but would never force them on you.
The perfect man won't force you to tell him everything, but he's always there if you want to.
The perfect man will sit with you when you don't feel like dancing.
The perfect man will know when to take your hand.
The perfect man will know when he loves you but won't tell you until he's sure he means it.
The perfect man will make you want to be a better person.
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BUT............
The perfect man does not exist.

NOW EVERYBODY GO.. - MMMM.TRUE!
:D

School tomorrow @ 3.30pm -6.30pm - CRAPP!
But at least its in the afternoon!

Thursday is Dinner with the girls. Been very long since we last have a proper dinner together. I think it was like last year in March.. but dearest Vanns was in China. :(
To all my girls reading this, i hope after the dinner, all of you will continue to come up with more meet-up gathering.

And last but not least, i came across a new discovery.. A taiwan drama - Sweet Relationship! Although this is not a new drama and i have seen it in TS, but it has never look appealing to watch. But after a recommendation from Terry.. i started watching.
And i know some of you will be telling me AGAIN?! And KYLE, i can hear you cursing me :Q but i have promise myself that after this drama, i will work hard and start preparing diligently for my Law paper and Statics paper.
So, forget this time.. Alright?! - hehe.

That's about it for the day.


TTYS!
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MondayMonday, January 05, 2009
BACK TO SCHOOL TODAY!!!

Business Stats is really a headache! Worst of all, it took me and GF to queue for 1hr just so that we can pay our fees and register for lesson!
Anyway, i manage to get the "stem & leaf" thing in my head. Not everything. But plotting the chart! :) WELL DONE ME!

Was talking to BF Vanns just now on the phone. Been so long since we last chatted on the phone. Yesterday was BF sophia! Love my girls:D

And Madd is coming to MDIS. hahahahaha. So +1 friend in school! But my timetable this round really is interesting! Although the timing is like bu san bu si but.. i love it! Cause it's all afternoon class! I can sleep past morning :)

I'm going to carry on watching my HONG KONG DRAMA NOW::::::!


TTYS
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SundaySunday, January 04, 2009
It's 3am in the morning and i just woke up. Not from the previous night sleep :)
Woke up @ 3pm yesterday afternoon, idle around till 6pm and then went to meet Kyle for dinner. Came back home around 9pm.. was watching tv till i fell asleep till now. And then i had the scariest dream, i dreamt about me having premonition about strange things. And it has something to do with the economy and stocks and people i know like Dad.mum.aunts.uncles.friends, and..
Even Danial Theyagu(my Law lecturer)! CHRIST!
But i can't seem to remember much, just that i was going around telling everybody not to play what stocks and when to sell and all, in the dream, everyone wasn't listening to me. And then i cry! -YA, I CRY! stupid and lame dream, but when i was telling kyle, who call me like 25 times just to ask if i've watched "WAR OF THE LAWS II" cause there's a guy who has the same name as him!???.. he said i sleeping too much to have such a weird dream!
As much as the dream seems stupid, it kind of felt real. but then again. what do i know about stocks and shares?!
OH WELL!...


anyway, i just had a big fight with mummy yesterday, nothing uncommon i know but she really is driving me up the walls. Her menopause age is far to come but she behaves like one. As much as i know people are going to say that's i'm cruel but i really think she should not live under the same roof as us. Firstly, she doesn't come back home daily. Maybe 3 or 4 the most and she disappears on weekends. Worst of all was that i didn't know she went to Japan few weeks back. For shopping. Just for 3days.?!
Helloo, that is so not the way to spend money at this point of time!> its RECESSION PERIOD!
This is just die hard old habits, last time she always go for last minute trip leaving me all alone @ home alone, And ever since 1996 which strip my family off totally which almost cause bankruptcy.. everyone became tamer. Which also broght us to be more independent. Dad went from Merc to Van, Mum went from shopping to no shopping and me to take the public transport.. And have'nt she learn her lesson to SAVE! Last time, dad could spend her, now she's alone. Was i wrong to say all that?! And she should be showing more care towards Patric. Haiya!! The more i say, the angrier i get!
But..saying so much, makes me feel better. :)

why do you have to learn it the hard way?
why do you only learn how 2 cherish when you're on the verge of losing?
why do you not put yourself in your partner's shoes?
why do you not appreciate his presence?
why do you choose to love in this way?
When
when would you learn that forgiving is easy but forgetting is difficult?
when would you learn to be contented?
when would you play your role and fulfill your responsibilities?

WHEN?WHY?HOW?




TTYS
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FridayFriday, January 02, 2009
HEART THIS PIC! :*



BBQ-ING MARSHMALLOWS - (was just missing one thing : FONDUE!)



That's BUNNY!!



FIND ME?!!



FOUND!



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OH WELL, the rest were just normal improper pics. Didn't take much pics yesterday cause Mr Camera was late, that was also because we were so engrossed eating and talking :) More to come though. Actually thinking about it, i think my new room wall-paper will be filled with their faces. Cause after yesterday viewing some pics at Fiancee's house, i've decided to put up pictures of my current life. Cause Secondary Pictures (without fringe) was simply HORRIBLE to look at. And to M and S if you're reading this, DON'T LAUGH!

Had a talk with dad just now, over Melvin, OUR new home and kathleen and just soo randomly he started talking to me about friendship. I really admire dad though, all his life, he has soo many friends(and i mean SO MANY),but then there is always this group which consists just 6 of them whom have been together for over 30+yrs. MAN! Imagine what they went thru. And then i told dad that why is it so hard to find that kind of friendship, and this is what he said that have left me thinking : MEN AND WOMAN ARE DIFFERENT. You may now have this group of close friends, but give it few years when they each have a spouse and children, things will change. You won't meet up often, maybe once a year or once over few years. That is because once woman has kids and family, they tend to put all their focus there that they end up not having time to spend with their friends, but men are different. Although they have kids, family and all, personnel life are equally important. Therefore, for men is very difficult not to break that kind of friendship, instead they will grow stronger. And after he said those words, i felt that me not getting married young and never having kids is good. At least when all these girlfriends get attach to their life, i can still make time.
But well, dad said it right, it takes YEARS to fully understand who are your true friends. And Woman takes longer, cause of the characters we have, JEALOUSY.COMPETITIVE are the two major ones. To me, i feel that it doesn't really matter much cause i can strongly say i know all my close pals characters very well. And being a Libra, friends are a important circle in our life, therefore, i'm very sure to stay close with them.

gotta go now. Service call by KING BRENDAN YEO!





Pictures from Yesterday BBQ at Fiancee house with BGFF!
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Friday, January 02, 2009
Helllloooo 2009!
My very first post for the year!
It's just the 2nd day of the year and i'm SO excited!
And why is there not a reason for me to be excited right?!
OH, good news first,
>DEAREST GF is going to go to the same intake as me :) - YAY!!! I WON'T BE ALONE!!
And i don't know if it should be considered good or not BUT...School starts on Monday for me. Doing Business Statistics, Thanks to my fantastic attendance i have to re-module. But i need it anyway!

Well, New Year Countdown was pretty memorable and extremely FUN! Spend the NY's Eve @ Vanns place together with the usual people.. and then went over to countdown with dad. So packed.. And i mange to help out! I sound crazy but, i really love to work in a Pub environment, but protective daddy thinks its a bad idea with all his life theories. Normal parents thinking. But i don't understand, they allow me to go to these places, but not work there?! And dad can some more say, when i officially reach 18 then i can only come one place to help - His pub! And NO WHERE ELSE!! Where got fun lor! Can you imagine, you pouring drink and all, and your dad stands beside you?? -:(
Anyway, i felt it was too crowded, so i accompany dad to 7-eleven to get some snacks, and i saw kathy, chris and friends.. Boat Quay was PACKED. really packed. Like fishes in the sea all swimming and swamping together.. to think i would meet them was "FATE"! :D
So dad told me to go out with them to enjoy myself. And the way he said it was the best.

DAD: "You want to go with your friends?
ME: UM, nevermind la, i follow you
DAD: no need to act filial, go and enjoy with your friends.
ME: Nevermind la
Dad: why you want to follow an old man on NY day. Go and enjoy with your friends, is good enough that you spend countdown with me.
ME: okay:D

So, we went back to the coffee-shop where the rest were still dining, and then plan was to go and watch sun-rise.. but some just wanted to find a place to lie down, we went over to Jerry's place since his parents were out of town. And the moment we came in, don't know which stupid moron went to get alcohol. And everybody started drinking like no tomorrow.(OKay, nit everybody but most) REALLY DISASTROUS!! Around 4.30am, you could see, half of them puking and another half asleep! As for me, after getting everybody settle, i went home with Chris, Betty and Jenny. These people who can't sleep any other bed besides theirs! hahahaha.
NY was simple, - Buddhist temple,Lunch and then off to Uncle Frank's house! Simple and sweet!

Today was the start of school for the Primary and Secondary level. Also the first day for Patric as he enter Primay 1 & Kathleen for Secondary school life! And i really have to say my siblings are DA BEST! Patric pointed middle finger to his friend on the first day of school, and kathleen has a weirdo teacher but she think the teacher is nice! And to all PL friends, reading this, guess who is Kathleen's form teacher?! - MDM CHONG FEE KIM!
hahahaha. and the worst part is Kath thinks she's kind and nice! I gave Kath a tip. which is never tell her i'm your sister! :D
Anwyay, time has seriously change. Kath wore a low belt and short skirt (above knee) to school and was passed! Like hello. is the prefect blind?
I'm kind of not concentrating while tpying this as i have my drama on TV roling. So i shall end here and catch up later!


TTYL!
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