Well, a VERY UN-PLANNED DAY TODAY :( But things ended up pretty well, thanks to my UNDERSTANDING GIRLFRIENDS. :D
To S and E, if you're reading this, even though you guys said you were not upset and all, but i still feel bad so.. let me say Sorry again, and hope things will be better in future. I really hope that the "fantastic 6" will form pretty soon and we'll get to do major fun things like other 18 onwards girls do, : CLUBBING, EATING, DRINKING, PLAYING AND WHATEVER WE CAN THINK OF :) So do reconcile soon yeah, but no hurry, no worries :) But whatever it is, please do remember that - I LOVE YOU GUYS! -> LOADSSSSS! And i want all of you to be HAPPPPY! :O
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Actually while blogging this, my mind is full with thoughts on M. Really wondering where she is now. Don't know why, but like i really need to know what happen to her and cammy! And also i think she had a rough trip. MANNN! HATE THAT FEELING. Like i want to know NOW, but i can't! Looks like i'm going to stay awake for her text :*)
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I did another amazing priceless thing today - MY FIRST M18 MOVIEEEE! - HAHAHAHAHA!
I sound like a kid who just been to the movie for the first time, but No joke man! BEFORE ENTERING, i was like OVERJOYED. The emotion was PRICELESS i tell you. SO... INDESCRIBABLE. Anyway, we caught "Mt Bloody Valentine" 3D! Which was even awesome cause its been ages since i caught a 3D show. The last i can remember was during Sec school days at some science shit field trip. I want to thank BGFF for the movie. And BGFFBF for the drinks. And both for accompanying me to watch the first M18 show :)
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Finally to end all, i can strongly say that Singapore is a very small country. And you can always catch a movie within 15mins from Far east to Cathay! hahahahaha! SHHHHH, that's a inside secret.
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P/S : Don't know what's up with me and my blogging method today but looks like Points form are so much better!
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Another P/S : I SURVIVED WITH $50 BUCKS EXACTLY TODAY! WITH $6 EXTRA. But couldn't have done it if not for BGFF & BGFFBF! Thanks guys *)

Met BGFF & BGFFBF after their school today! They did their project, i KPO-kpo! :)
Didn't do much, just mac lunch, chit chat, gave ideas, read my True Singapore Ghost Stories.. and JUST BLANK!

Now i've got tasks to do. - PLANNING FOR MY GRANDMA'S 70TH BIRTHDAY! - WHOOO!

I'm tired now, shall blog more tomorrow :D
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The last picture was when we were underwater with all those preety fishes :P
We even sat on roller coaster ride, visited the moon, went to the see waterfall and visit pokerdot land!
hahahah! Clueless at all i just mention?! YOU SHOULD BE :) cause its OUR ADVANTURESSS! HAHAHAHA
Our own dora the explorer!

Out for Lunch with Nur today. And then followed by mini grocery shopping. I bought 4 dvds home and all went to daddy! HOW GREAT! Didn't get to watch any :(

I just watched Slumdog Millionaire! FABULOUS MOVIE! I totally encourage every single human and non human to watch it! Its reallly DA BOMB!! As i was watching the oscars yesterday, they did won awards for the movie, and personally i think they deserve BIG TIME!!!

A bit about about this exciting movie which Angelina Jolie comented huge, as well as Oparah Winfry. :)

Set and filmed in India, Slumdog Millionaire tells the story of a young man from the slums of Mumbai who appears on the Indian version of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire? and exceeds people's expectations, arousing the suspicions of the game show host and of law enforcement officials.

After screenings at the Telluride Film Festival and the Toronto International Film Festival, Slumdog Millionaire initially had a limited North American release on November 12, 2008 by Fox Searchlight Pictures and Warner Bros. Pictures, to critical acclaim and awards success. It later had a nationwide release in the United Kingdom on January 9, 2009 and in the United States on January 23, 2009.
Slumdog Millionaire was nominated for 10 Academy Awards and won eight, the most for any film that year, including Best Picture. It also won five Critics' Choice Awards, four Golden Globes, and seven BAFTA Awards, including Best Film. The film is also the subject of controversy concerning its portrayal of India and Hinduism as well as the welfare of its child actors.

TEMPTED?! CATCH IT THEN! I GUARANTEE ITS REALLY WORTH THE TIME AND MONEY!
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Enough about the movie, plenty things to be done this week. So as i say my current week would be dry, umm.NOT ANYMORE!
Meeting BGFF for study session, passport thing to be done, head to SimLim to repair that moron's lappy and MY WEEKENDS ARE BOOKED! HAHAHAHA!
So HOORAY TO A NO BORING WEEEK! Thanks to BGFF or else my Wednesday would be hell boring! :)


gotta pack pack.

Nothing much to blog though!
Actually there will be nothing to blog also for the next few days. :P
Meeting Nur for coffee tomorrow to chitty chat :),
Wednesday onwards would be working on research till Friday or so,
Saturday over at Maddy's place and
Sunday to await for the arrival of beloved Gan Ma!

OH MY! So boring!! I already watch all interesting dramas already, except for those latest which haven't released every episodes. Some were even watched 3times. Like Hot Shot! I really do have so much time in hand. :K

I wanna go China so badly now. Like buy a plane ticket now and just go over :(
I also wanna cut my hair. I really wanna go bob. I know i haven't mention this yet on blog, but the other time at BGFF place, when we were doing our hair, my hair looked really good when its short as well. Besides, the last time my hair was Short.SHORT, was when i was in K2?! Freaking ages ago!
I also need a change of wardrobe. But that won't be anytime soon. Cause i plan to clear away my cupboard in August, nearing to when i'm shifting place. And then, once i'm settle in at the new place, which would be around Sept/Oct then a new wardrobe change. By then i hope to at least lose down some weight :) HOPEFULLLLY!**

I'm very sleepy already. Turning to bed now.

Told you, a very dry post! Hopefully something interesting will happen at the next couple of days! :)

Yesterday was MADNESS! PURE CRAP SHIR RANDOM MADNESS!
Was invited by Haizzel over for bbq @ Pasir Ris Park :) Met acquaintance again like Nadia and Omar. Made a new friend, Sarah!
Cam-Whore session was the ultimate lah! just ULTIMATE! Especially when you put 6 girls (Sophia,Madd,Kerrie,Nadia,Sarah and Me) + 1 clumsy photographer (Alvin) and 2 CRAZY Directors (Haizzel & Omar) = TOPSY TURVEY MADNESS!
Anyway, food was good, (love the potato salad), great drinks, and great company JUST GIVES YOU A GREAT DAY!

Enough of talking, PICTURE-TIME!
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Well, i guess i will not be uploading the rest, too lazy to do so! :)

My body clock is now BACK ON TRACK! Although i will say the timing is really fast! My bed-time is 9pm - 10pm. Not later than 11pm. And i wake up at 4am+! Not bad huh?!
But, i'm gonna sleep in tomorrow. BBQ on the evening:)

Met BGFF today, went to do out nails, actuallly we were trying (at first) to go buget, so do express mani only, but then we got attracted to the student offer and did both mani and padi! Mannn, freakishly broke now!!!

I have nothing much to comment, just that i'm tired and i need beddy now!



nights

HEY STALKER PERSON,
I was intending to leave you and your super low life alone until i felt like maybe since you like stalking so much then you wouldn't mind if i treated you as my personal TRASH! I'm in a super BAD MOOD ( Definitely not BECAUSE OF YOU), and seeing your tags makes me think that i shouldn't ignore a worthless living person!

Whatever my URL is, isn't any of your business. If you don't like it and "find it LAME".. That's your problem not mine! And maybe you're forgetting that you're visiting my website, not the other way round. This is my blog, i write what i like, do what i like and say what i like. And yesh,, i'm VERY honored to have you visiting my blog daily, it adds to mu daily counter. And to think that this blog is worth your time, HELL AM I HAPPPPY! :)

So, i suggest that you get a life and stop messing up yours. What good will it do to you?! By tagging, it only allows people to see how messed your life is and how low you are. What will it affect me, - NOTHING. Moreover it gives me a topic to bitch about with my girlfriends. If hiding behind the computer screen typing this might make you feel GOOD, GO AHEAD! Cause its not going to affect me in anyway, besides the good benefits,.. of bitching about you, being PROUD that i found another STALKER, higher viewer counts, and most of all, DESPISE YOU!

There, i stated my point already. If you're jealous of my life -SCRAM! If you love me too much that you don't know the right way of expressing i would say - KEEP IT UP AND LOVE ME MORE! Cause i bet my life is more worthy to be love than yours :O And if you have sucha boring life or more like NO LIFE, then GO GET A LIFE!!!
And if its all of the above (which is most likely to be) - HAHAHAHA! I'm so Proud of myself!
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Alright, i have just finish watching Boys Before flowers episode 13 and 14! SHIOK-KA-DOO!
Also spent the entire night, without sleeping at all, till 1.30PM to 4.30PM, watching Love Marriage! Looking for more interesting drama to watch.

Something happen today between me and Daddy. Had a conversation with him about it and all. Don't wanna dwell further. Discussion yet to be continued. Stalker cheered me somehow, by typing the above portion out, i was thinking and telling myself, I must be living a life to people who envy me. And somehow, that made me felt better. Much BETTER! :))


SLEEEEPYY HEAD!~

HO.HO.HO.

I'm turning moldy man! Business Statistics exam is this Thursday and i know nothing. Besides Mean.Mode,median! Like that how to sit for exam?! But the good news is, I have officially finish watching "Love or Bread" and just one more last episode for "Pi Li MIT!" whooo-hooo!
And not forgetting BOYS BEFORE FLOWERS EPI 13 & 14 will be out by Wednesday :)
(Like all those wold be exam questions) - I WISH :D

Besides school tomorrow and Thursday, meeting the girls this saturday for another bbq session.
*madd, sophia - we need to GYM Sooooon! * Carry on like that sure BANG WALL! :)
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I received an e-mail yesterday from Sarah. And i thought i share this 2 jokes, super hilarious!


-JOKES about HEAVEN-

An old lady of 55 years old met with God one day and God has confirmed to her that she is going to live for another 20 years. Feeling very happy with the news, she went on to have the Best plastic surgery with the Best surgeon that money can buy. So from looking like an old woman, she now looks beautifully stunning and young after the surgery. But as soon as she left the hospital, she was knocked down by a speeding car and died on the spot. When God meet up with her she was very angry, feeling that God has lied to her.

Old Lady : Why did you lie to me,God?

God : No. I didn’t.

Old Lady : But why did you tell me that I have 20 more years to live when you intend to take my life before that?

God : But I didn’t intend to take your life until 20 years later. When I took your life, I didn’t know that it was you because you didn’t look like yourself when you met me. You now looked different. How was I to know that the young lady that left the hospital was you?

God : Sorry but too late already.

Old Lady : ??? ( regretting her decision )
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Ah Beng was a very pious man. He always prays to God and always burnt (Chinese paper) money, hoping to get more money from God. Before he died he asked his wife to burn lots of (Chinese paper) money, paper bungalow, paper Mercedes Benz, paper Rolex watch, paper laptop and lots of other high end stuff during his funeral hoping that he could have it ALL in Heaven . His wife did what he told her and after the burial, God came to see him.

God : Welcome to Heaven, Ah Beng. Here are all the things that was burnt and sent to Heaven to you and by your wife on your behalf.

But Ah Beng doesn’t seem happy with what God has given him.

God : Why Ah Beng? Whats wrong? You don’t seem to be Happy with what I have given you? I have given you what you wanted. A bungalow, a Mercedes Benz, a Rolex watch, lots of money, a laptop and a lot more high end stuff that you asked for.

Ah Beng: Yeah. But what you have given me are all made of papers. How can I make use of them?

God : But what you burnt to me are all made of papers. How can I give you something else? What you give is what you get, right? Unless you burnt me the real thing… then that’s another story. Make sense?

Ah Beng: Ahh Well…. L


hahaha!

Initially was surpose to meet BGFF AND BGFBF today for lunch but then dearest me slept like sleeping beauty! NOT EXACTLY BEAUTY :) HAHA! And woke up late! SORRYYY GUYS!

And then went out with Family. Went to get MEL,KATH AND PAT school stuff! I MISS SECONDARY SCHOOL DAYS!
Kathleen got herself a stupid sport shoe and bag for track, Mel got himself a new school shoe and his STUPID True Singapore Ghost Story book 18! Pat was the best! Spend almost 200 bucks just for him! He went on a BEN 10 (kids cartoon) SPREE! Got himself a bag, shoe, waterbottle, pencil case,ruler,pencils,easers,sharpener, diary book ALL ON BEN 10!! Super EX la!
As i watch dad pay after each shop, i couldn't dare ask dad for a sports shoe!

Very tired day though! Gonna meet Nur for study session tomorrow! Better get into bed early tonight!

Ciao!

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Single and Crushing

I'd say, I love every moment of my Single life,
by not having to answer to anyone but myself.

I mean, I can come and go as I please,spending my time as I like,
and gives me the freedom to date and go out with different group of people
without the pressure of having to answer to anyone else.

Or maybe you can say I choose to go through my life being single because I can't find a mate?
But the fact is I really do cherish the freedom and the idea of not having to worry about what my
the other half might think or say.

Today is Valentine, and i would like to take the time to wish everyone A Happy Valentine's Day!
Though to me, Valentine is just yet another day, it doesn't matter cause everyday should be Valentine to couples and not just today but then again, Valentine is suppose to be shared with the one you loved, expressing to Him/Her how much he/she means to you.
Therefore, if you're attach, treasure this day, if you're single, just sit and pray and if you just am happy to be single, (like me), then just laze around as going out will let you see things that will distract your principles.

Today a very dumb person was chatting with me thru msn. His Girlfriend at the moment is in Australia studying so maybe that explains him dumbness! Anyway, we were chatting on msn when he told me his friend wrote "Happy V-day everyone" on her display, and he asked when was valentine?! OMG. I was dumbfounded, a person like me don't know can understand, but a guy who is with his GF for almost 3yrs don't know? Stupid anot>?!

Another thing that happen is that my brother was surpose to go on a date with his girlfriend but is banned from my dad due to his recent smoking case, therefore no Valentine :( AWWWW, but that moron also can't be bothered. He didn't even call his Girlfriend nor message her. NOTHING! Still can be so happy, watching tv and asking for pizza!

Next is Mel! She called me early in the morning at 6am, i wasn't sleeping yet, was watching my drama, and she ask if i had anything on today? So i told her nothing and then she asked me the most OUT-OF-THE-BLUE question : " Let's go for speed-dating today"!! WTH! SPEED-DATING? ON VALENTINE? Firstly, speed-dating is so not my thing, and on valentine to do that is to announce to the world that you're desperate. Not that she is, but i guess she can't pull it that a gorgeous lady like her would be spending V-day alone!

With these 3 lunatics today made me realize that maybe i should just start to convert to a nun!! :P
One, forgot when is V-day, but he really love his GF to bits! I can vouch for that :)
Another, doesn't even bother about the Girl, as if she's a toy! SUCHA PLAYER!
And another obsessed with the fact she doesn't have a partner on V-day :(

MAN, what is happening to the world of ours!

Kathleen even tag-ed my board asking me to stop being a good girl and find a boyfriend, Mel told me the same, my friends tells me the same, everyone does. But the thing is, THE RIGHT ONE HASN'T COME ALONG YET! When will it come? I'm not sure and i don't want it to be anytime near, cause i got goals to achieve before i can think of all these. To me, finding the right one is important and i don't want to be involve in a relationship, why must i surrender to one when there is an ocean out there. With dolphins and Mer-man. To be, m dream is definitely a mer-man. But its pretty rare, like one in a zillion, so i shall just wish for a dolphin. Although very little left but still realistic.
I didn't want to bring this up, but since my dearest friend Roger has tagged me calling me a virgin infront of all, there's nothing more to hide. Moreover I rather be one than not :)
R once said that with my kind of demands in my Mr Right, i would be left a Virgin for the rest of my life, and he sent me a picture of this, although its been long, but i thought it will suit a post like this...
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Isn't he mean?! Thanks ah Roger! But we had this stupid pact that if i still haven't found the perfect man by the age of 50, i have to surrender to him as he doesn't want to see a Virgin die like that! Idiot right! But yeah, i did say yes, cause deep inside i know that no matter how fussy i am, i'm sure that is still that one person.

After watching the news (very rare to see me do that), which was talking on people getting married on V-day, i asked myself why? Why V-day? why Number days - where people go by number, eg: 09-09-09! Like why? Isn't is because its easier to remember? If not why??! Then i came across this pic while googling.
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Have you wonder why wedding ring was round?!




I just did!!
:)

Something is really wrong with me! I slept for 15 hrs. Since 7am this morning till 10pm+! Freakish! And yet, i'm still slightly tired! What the hell is wrong with me?!
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I'm pretty bored and i saw some interesting things to post on FB but i don't know how to copy them into notes, so i shall just post them here for the fun of it!!
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1. What do you do if you are in the bathroom with a beetle flying around?
Run out of the toilet and use another one in the house. And call for Tina to kill that little creature!

2. What do you do if you hear a song you like playing on the radio when you are all alone in the room?
Sing along :)

3. You want to speak to your crush badly. What is your pick up line? (Yes. Both boys AND girls have pick up lines)
HAHA. "Hey, you look familiar? Do we know each other"? - Definitely is my kind of line :)

4. What do you do if all your friends hate a particular band that you love?
This happens to me, and as usual i would say HACK IT! I would still love them.

5. What do you do when you trip and fall in front of many people?
WIsh i was dead at that second!

6. You forgot to do your multiple-choice question homework (the one whereby you have to choose 1 out of 4 options given to you as your answer) and your class starts in 5 minutes. What do you do?
Sounds familiar!! I would either copy from a friend or just anyhow fill it in!

7. You have bad breath and someone speaks to you. How do you react?
Stand further from the person and try to excuse myself!

8. You just finished gym and after a shower, you drop your underpants on the wet floor. What do you do?
If i'm not wearing a skirt, i would just go without the panties. If i am, i'll use those hand-dry machine.

9. What do you do if a personality quiz says that you have a lousy personality as your result?
Why should a stupid quiz judge my personalities.

10. Your friend gave you the worst gift you have ever received and asks: Do you like it? How do you react?
Smile, say thanks and reply that is the thought that counts!

11.(Continued from question 10) What are you really thinking secretly inside?
Another gift that needs to be chucked aside! And know that this "friend" doesn't know you at all.

12. A hot guy/girl keeps looking at you while you are on the bus. What are you secretly thinking inside?
Play hard to get!!
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Another one,
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1. What is your name: Shalinda
2. A four Letter Word: Shit
3. A boy's Name: Shin
4. A girl's Name: Shannon
5. An occupation: Stewardess
6. A color: Sky Blue
7. Something you wear: Skirt
8. A food: Scallop
9. Something found in the bathroom: Soap
10. A place: Sweden
11. A reason for being late: Sleeping Late
12. Something you shout: SHUTSS
13. A movie title: Swordfish
14. Something you drink: Sweet Drinks
15. A musical group: Sly and the family stone
16. An animal: Sheep
17. A street name: Sophia Street
18. A type of car: Subaru
19. A song title: She's Not Just A Pretty Face - Shania Twain
20. A verb: Shocked

Now, that wasn't easy as i thought. Oh well, enough of stupid things, going to carry on with "Hana Yori Dango" - My second Jap drama :)

Its FIRDAY THE 13TH TODAY!!!!
WHOOOOOO. Though i know nothing INTERESTING will happen!

Its 5.10am and i'm up awake still, pondering on my thoughts, was watching shows online just now till i suddenly stopped, for no reason, and then i went to my window and stayed there for at least 10mins, doing what, staring at the sky, and thinking! Now, thinking back, i feel so weird! Maybe because my ass was pain after sitting for 6hrs so i had to take a breather. Whatever it is, was just creepy of me.
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I've read an article and feel that it's rather meaningful,
and so I'd like to share with you.

Answers to Your Life

Me: Why are we constantly unhappy?

God: Uncertainly is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty...

God: Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?

God: Diamond cannot be polished without fiction.
Gold cannot be purified without fire.
Good people go through trials, but don't suffer.
With that experience their life becomes better, not bitter.

Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?

God: Yes. In every term, experience is a hard teacher.
She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Me: But still, why should we go through such tests?
Why can't we be free from problems?

God: Problems are purposeful roadblocks offering beneficial lessons
to enhance mental strength. Inner strength comes from struggles and
endurance, not when you are free from problems.

Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where
we are heading....

God: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading.
Look inside.
Looking outside, you'll dream.
Looking inside, You'll awaken.
Eyes provide sight.
Heart provides insight.

Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving
in the right direction. What should I do?

God: Success is a measure as decided by others.
Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead.
You work with the compass.
Let others work with the clock.

Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?

God: Always look at how far you have come rather than how far
you have to go.
Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Me: What surprises you about people?

God: When they suffer they ask, "why me?"
When they prosper, they never ask "why me?"
Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the
side of the truth.

Me: Sometimes I ask, "Who am I, why am I here?" I can't get the answer.

God: Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be.
Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here.
Create it.
Life is not a process of discovery, but a process of creation.

Me: How can I get the best of our life?

God: Face your past without regret.
Handle your present with confidence.
Prepare for the future without fear.



God and humans! Both never satisfied !

Spent quite an interesting day! Did plenty of things.
Prepared V day presents, dyed my hair, dyed Maddy's hair, Saw new pet rabbit Fluffy settle at BGFF place, and had STEAMBOAT!

Fluffy.fluffy.fluffy~! A gift from BGFF(BF) to BGFF! (SWEET-TOH)
HAD a very filling steamboat dinner. Still craving for the Tom Yum soup though!
hahaha!!

Oh well, nothing much to comment these days! Just that it has been quite fun hanging out with BGFF & M! And not forgetting my Series of dramas!

School on Friday! SIAN.SIAN! Gonna rest and spend the day at home tomorrow! TOO much outing already, till dad says i'm hardly at home! So NOT TRUE! Maybe these few days! Cause was at Tai Ma's and Sophia's place!

Okay, gonna get busy now!!

Went over to BGFF place today! And i love her MUMMY! Aunty gave me a tin of LOVE LETTERS and some tarts, which i have not tried them yet. And Madd got herself a wasabi chips. Helping her mum to finish! hahaha. And we'll be back for more pepsi bottles :)
To summarize, had fun today with BGFF & M! And will be back again to do out hair tomorrow:) FREE STYLIST SOMEMORE :)
Sophia, if you're reading this, don't spoil my hair tomorrow hor! :D

V day is this week! Not in Sec school anymore to be giving out gifts., now is Kathleen's turn! And i'm charging her for my labour! WIll be helping her work on something. SO, labour fees on her :)

OH WELL, gonna go get change and then watch a few episodes of MIT and then to LALA land. Charging myself for tomorrow!

Firstly, I WANNA ANNOUNCE THAT I LOVE THE NEW K-DRAMA I'M WATCHING - "BOYS BEFORE FLOWER"!
And i'm so thankful to Madd for having introducing me to such HOT STUFFFFF!

Secondly, my day today was tired. Woke up at 7.30am for breakfast! Oh. i stayed over at Tai Ma's place which isn't something out of the box. Thirdly, I had fun at bbq with BGFF and Madd!

AND LASTY,
I WANNA CONTINUE WATCHING MY DRAMA!


NIGHTS:)

Had Law paper today which totallly SUCKS!
I really don;t know what shit i crap, what facts and nonsense i wrote!
ARRRGGHHHH!

(shall not talk about it anymore) just wait for the results to show :(

I met my Childhood friend while doing my eyebrow. She was doing it beside me and i found her vioce very familiar, after a while, when i was done, i took my time so that she would recognize me.. HAHAHA, so ma lu right, if i go up and say "HI", and she don't know who i was. But then, she was doing the exact same thing. So in the end, we ended up talking a while and all:)

I really love this part about Singapore, because we are so small (GEOGRAPHY THEORY) that we bump into people and all. And the best part of everything was that, we didn't exchange contact. She said, see you around and i said the same thing.. LIKE WTH!
But, i guess we will :0

OH WELL, gotta get ready!

I MAY/MAY NOT blog tonight. Going over to Tai Ma's place!!!!!!


ahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahah!
CRAPPP PAPER!

And i hate when KATHLEEN ACT AS IF SHE KNOWS EVERYTHING.! KATHLEEN, SUCHA LOSER :)
WOULD BE SO GLAD IF YOU'RE READING THIS. THWY! Don't know what's that .. it's "TO H_LL WITH _OU




PISSED WITH KATHLEEN!

I got tagged twice on facebook for the "25 random things" again! But, i didn't know how to respond it from there, so i thought why not just do it on my blog. Since people who read my blog are my friends, therefore, i feel more secure! :)
But this thing is going round and round, and is actually getting very irritating :(
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1. I feel this is just lame, but i'm doing this cause i feel that it's all over FB and maybe once i do this, it will not come back and haunt me again!
2. I want to get my license as soon as possible.
3. I want to retire latest by 35:)
4. I want to die by 75/80, definitely not more than 80!
6. I want to travel around the world and bring Daddy with me!
7. I don't wanna have kids. NOT EVEN ONE.
8. I really still wish my MR RIGHT is living well and not got hit by the truck or something :P
9. If my house ever got burn down, the first thing i will do is to grab my collection of Korean/Taiwan/HK and the whole loads of CDs in my shelf! I'll try to get rid of the textbooks faster! :)
10. I miss my Secondary school days BADLY :(
11. I tend not to study at all, till the last minute and usually that is why i fail :!
12. I don't want to lose contact with my friends ever in life!
13. I want to move out and stay by the time i reach 21. (Initially the plan was 19)
14. I am very excited for my new house! (I'm gonna do what it takes to get the Balcony room.)
15. I want to go back to Shanghai as soon as i can!
16. I like the colors, Black & white, Gold & Sliver, Red & BLUE, Green and Grey! :)
17. I want my LV bag soon.
18. I'm still deciding what i should do for my birthday this year!
19. Back in primary school, i was underweight, now i'm overweight, therefore i want to really slim down. At least back to 50kg!
20. i need chocolate on a regular basis.
21. I used to drink gassy drinks now i've stopped!
22. Salad has been my crave lately!
23. I don't like to bath in hot water, except for sauna!
24. Tomorrow is Business law paper and i've not even studied anything :(
25. i am so glad this is over.

ONE WORD TO DESCRIBE MY DAY TODAY - CHAOTIC
ONE PHRASE TO DESCRIBE MY DAY TODAY - ONE OF THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE
THE SENTENCE TO SUMMARIZE ALL, - WHAT SUCH "SUAY" LUCK I HAVE THIS YEAR:(

I lost my phone today:(, BUT THENNN. This aunty found it and gave it back to me. This Aunty who doesn't speak english, chinese a bit and i think she is more to dialect speaking. Anyway, to cut this super long story short, I lost my phone on my way to school! And the pay-phone that i use was eating my COINS very fast. The cute part about this aunty was that, the moment she found my phone, there was many people trying to call at the same time, but the thing was that she didn't know how to use my phone and because my phone was on silent, she thought it was spoiled and didn't know how to use, so she finally found this school boy who helped her pick up my call, AND just nice i cabbed to meet this lady. I offered her $50 cause i was truly very grateful to her but then she didn't want to accept so we left and departed there. I really am GRATEFUL TO THAT LADY, is not the cost of my phone, but the contacts and this is the million time i lost phones/cameras/ wallets. Everything i have, i lose it! And dad told me that this was going to be the last phone he's giving me:(

To top all, i want to specially thank JASMINE AND LIYING. Cause without them, i would be even more in worst case. Man, today was just chaos, people i tried to reach, didn't pick up, people i wanted to call, i couldn't remember their number and poor brendan who tried to call and call so that he could go to school as he didn't know where lesson was held today:(!


After this SUAY incident, i went over to Tai Ma's place. Had a very good dinner and manage to get peace there.
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Saturday is Law, which i'm so not prepared. I'm going to mug hard tomorrow like crazy!

enough of today, going to shower off my sway-ness and have a good nights sleep!!!!

Today something SPOOKY/FUNNY happen. :)

Had school today, and was late to leave home on time for class so decided to cab instead. (LATE is just an excuse:), i woke up early but because i didn't want to walk in the wet wet ground as it was raining earlier on! hehe:D
Class starts at 3.30pm and i left my house at 3.30pm, while waiting for cab, which took years to hail one, this BLACK CAB(the super old comfort cab), stop. He actually already went pass me, but he made a turn and stop for me, oh, the moment i left the house was the moment Jasmine called me, so i was taking to her, while waiting for the cab.. i got in the cab, said to the uncle "stirling road uncle" and contiue my conversation. Halfway thru i got off the phone with Jas, and then the uncle said this " YOU TOOK MY CAB BEFORE RIGHT?" (In Chinese)! I got a shock man, firstly how the uncle know i speak chinese and why ask me such a weird question! Then i remembered talking to Jas on the phone, half chinese half english but then, why would he ask if i sit his taxi right. So i replied "huh", wo bu zhi dao" and his reply freaked me out even more! He said, i think the other i send you to Jurong East Street 21! There is where my grandma stayed but the worst thing was that its been at least 7mths+ i last went there. Then i told him, maybe cause there is where my grandma lives and he replied, "that time you were carrying your lap-top"! WOW. Even i don't remember myself carrying a lap-top man. So, we carry on our conversation. Me being impress with his memory and he telling me that he ever took passengers the second time and how he would recall them but they don't!
He even told me a story about this lady he took, she was pregnant, the first time he took her and after 1 year over, he took her again, and this time he ask the lady, how old is your child, and the lady freaked completely!

Well, it also goes to show that dear me, is so not responding to the downfall of economy:( But then again, taxi drivers are getting really interesting. Everytime i take a cab, if i find the cab driver approachable, i will always start a conversation with them and everytime i always get to learn something new. SO, i guess i'm not just wasting money right? Learning things at the same time. Killing 2 birds with one stone:) Now everybody say "EXCUSES.EXCUSES.EXCUSES."! HAHAHA!
The other time i took a cab to madd's place, the cab driver freaking nice, we talk and talk until i don't feel like stopping even. These taxi driver seriously are trying to earn a living so hard, but then again, because of recession, people are restraining from cabbing, so if i also follow, then won't the economy be EVEN WORSE?!
hahahahahaha


P/S: Kathleen. i know you read my blog, if you ever breath a word to Dad, You'll get it from me!"!!! :)

Was just reading Liying's blog, Although yesterday's post was already a close chapter but i really think that the Quote from "Dinah Mulock Craik" makes total sense. And totally true!!

"Friendship is the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all right out just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away."

Dad told me that he had a group of close to 20 friends at the start, but as time past, these 20 became 6! Those who couldn't click along or was missing when one was in help was slowly POOF.POOF. away! But that did not stop them from contacting the others. Some point or another in life, they would still call and ask about life, or invite them to Child's birthday or small gathering. And as time catch up, all grudges will fade away by themselves.

And like liying said, "is it possible for woman to hold that same of a friendship as guys do?".
That will depend and i think time will tell everything. But then again, what dad said was true, when woman become attach to their MARRIAGE/CHILDREN life, they tend to put all their time and energy into it that they are left with no "FRIENDS" time, much less their own time with themselves. But then again, why can't woman also divide up their time for friends. Hopefully, all my close girlfriends will lead a TAI-TAI life, then PROBLEM SOLVE :) I say until like so easy. But i guess, TIME will tell!

Anyway, that time has not come and won't be coming anytime soon. Unless "any" of you get married like when you're 21 or something! And until then, i will PROMISE to be the sole CONTACT-ER! Making sure that we keep in touch. hahaha.

After blogging this post, i had a urge to recall all my friends since i was born! Well, i have this group of CHILDHOOD friends. Which we use to grow up together, parents use to be friends, and then us and all. Although as we age, we don't see each other often but then the memories of our younger days stays in our hearts.
And then comes a bunch of HAPPY-GO-LUCKY primary school mates which i kind of lost contact with once i was in Sec school and now back again, thanks to facebook! Back in primary school, all we ever thought of was having fun. NO problems, no stress, no nothing. JUST FUN! Most to most is the I DON'T FRIEND YOU, and after a while i become your friend! And you don't have to be friends for very long and it feels like Best friend forever and ever and ever and ever...
And then SECONDARY school, which i can proudly say that was the WORST FRIENDSHIP PROBLEM i ever face in life. HONESTLY, being a very sociable person, getting along with people was never my problem. Just that i can be picky with my friends la, But other than that, being able to socialize = NO problem for me. But in secondary school, Problems after problems i face. Maybe because we all were girls, and being typical girls, we GOSSIP, get JEALOUS, get COMPETITIVE, and more GOSSIP! Starting of Sec 1, i was top of the world and then middle of the year i became BOTTOM of all! And then i learn that in life, not everything goes my way, and many fruitful life lesson that no one could ever taught me. And that's where everything started to change around, the people who once was top of the world was down and the down ones became up. I watch every single one, stumble and fall, and pick themselves up again. And this is a place that i met LIFE-LONG FRIENDS. Friends that i can depend on if i need help, friends that i know will be there for me. Friends that i really treasure. Although i would frankly say, i'm not surprise that one day these friends turn their back on me, which i would feel very sad :( but then again,. that's life. If life is always very happy, won't we living it be bored?!
But, i think after we graduated, things became much much better. The friends that i had but wasn't really there was now here for me. (FIANCEE AND BGFF). And there were the girls who always was there for me.. and some friends who i had so much problem with in Sec school, that when we gradated the friendship was MIA, NOT LOST, just MISSING IN ACTION. AND not forgetting the classy-mates! Although the rest were not my CLIQUE mates, but some was there when i needed them even though my clique was with me. And not everybody know, but these people are equally important in my life.
Dione,Bridget,Siti,Sinthu,Cathrine, Shiting, were people that have help me in school days. And i appreciate them!
Well, i guess somethings are worth waiting, some are not. And at times, what we need to do, is to just stand back and then we will be able to see the picture. And that is where TRUE FRIENDS are found. NO MATTER WHAT, SECONDARY SCHOOL DAYS WERE CHAOTIC BUTTT I LOVEE IT! Best LIFE experience:)
And finally, comes my Collage life. Totally different, you don't have to do anything to not have the unwanted person in the group cause everyone tends to be more pro-active, including the unwanted person. And things are more straight-forward. Suitable for me personally. And here is also where i forgot my principle in life and almost fall into a BIG TRAP but was saved! WHich spells NO RELATIONSHIP FOR ME TILL A LONG LONG TIME! At least when i'm retired at 30+. And also where i met friends like Brendan AND Nur. Friends that bring me back to reality and although we know each other for only sometime, it always feel so strong with them (at times)! :) Maybe because what i'm going through was what they went through so they can always give me constructive comments. But is not always up, cause our age gap is pretty far at least 4-5yrs. So at times there's where our disagreement are and all. BUT other than that, i'm happy to meet them :)

So, in life, friends comes and goes. Some stay and some goes but friends are also important in life. Therefore, i don't think its wrong to choose your friends. Friends comes in different categories, "Friends that benefit you". "Friends you benefit" and "Friends that you benefit and they benefitting you"! All these are important. You have to have a equal balance in these then will you be able to lead a much happy friendship life :)

With that, i wish all my friends, TO STAY HAPPY ALWAYSSS!!!!!!

HEART THIS PIC! :*



BBQ-ING MARSHMALLOWS - (was just missing one thing : FONDUE!)



That's BUNNY!!



FIND ME?!!



FOUND!



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OH WELL, the rest were just normal improper pics. Didn't take much pics yesterday cause Mr Camera was late, that was also because we were so engrossed eating and talking :) More to come though. Actually thinking about it, i think my new room wall-paper will be filled with their faces. Cause after yesterday viewing some pics at Fiancee's house, i've decided to put up pictures of my current life. Cause Secondary Pictures (without fringe) was simply HORRIBLE to look at. And to M and S if you're reading this, DON'T LAUGH!

Had a talk with dad just now, over Melvin, OUR new home and kathleen and just soo randomly he started talking to me about friendship. I really admire dad though, all his life, he has soo many friends(and i mean SO MANY),but then there is always this group which consists just 6 of them whom have been together for over 30+yrs. MAN! Imagine what they went thru. And then i told dad that why is it so hard to find that kind of friendship, and this is what he said that have left me thinking : MEN AND WOMAN ARE DIFFERENT. You may now have this group of close friends, but give it few years when they each have a spouse and children, things will change. You won't meet up often, maybe once a year or once over few years. That is because once woman has kids and family, they tend to put all their focus there that they end up not having time to spend with their friends, but men are different. Although they have kids, family and all, personnel life are equally important. Therefore, for men is very difficult not to break that kind of friendship, instead they will grow stronger. And after he said those words, i felt that me not getting married young and never having kids is good. At least when all these girlfriends get attach to their life, i can still make time.
But well, dad said it right, it takes YEARS to fully understand who are your true friends. And Woman takes longer, cause of the characters we have, JEALOUSY.COMPETITIVE are the two major ones. To me, i feel that it doesn't really matter much cause i can strongly say i know all my close pals characters very well. And being a Libra, friends are a important circle in our life, therefore, i'm very sure to stay close with them.

gotta go now. Service call by KING BRENDAN YEO!





Pictures from Yesterday BBQ at Fiancee house with BGFF!

SLEPT LIKE 4am+ this morning. Was talking to Denise and all. And she kept telling me how boring my blog was and all, and just so coincidental Kathleen was blogging, so got her to do me a blogskin for a Mac'donald breakfast. How smart of me, and naive of her. She wanted like Cash.cash. But then i thought, why not breakfast! I thought of sending her 5 songs instead but she was at least 34% clever to accept the breakfast instead. Anyway, either way i still EARN!
So, new blog-skin, new tag-board which needs new-link mates. Because i know some of you don't like to be link and all. I didn'y link you, but if you want to be link, just let me know K? I got a assistant who is free for labour. Her warranty lives forever. I know many of you will be going...How cheapo can you get? Over a breakfast and you make her do so much. NOW, my answer is.. That is what younger siblings are for. Being the eldest comes greater responsibilities, therefore they should submit to that. Don't know what and where i'm going at.

ANYWAY... today was AWESOME! Had BBQ over at Fiancée Maddy's place with BGFF! Had like food for a dozen people there. So we ate and pause and ate and pause. Company was great, food was good and the CHILLI WAS HOOOTTTT! But BGFF loved it. Wonder what kind of tongue she has :) We chat and bitch like any other Girls out party and cam-whore. Although Mr Camera was late, BUNNY substitute it. So we ended up playing with Bunny (maddy's rabbit). At first, i was reluctant to touch it, much less played with it, but BGFF got me tempted. But that Bunny didn't quite liked me at first, it was afraid (AWWWW), but after making friends, he went okay. And i think in future, i ("MIGHT") rare a Rabbit. It's so easy to maintain one. Just feed it with vegetables and water and it will survive. And best of all, you don't have to bath it, cause it won't stink at all. And if you're wondering how is that possible, i'll say i witness it myself. Fiancée said that the last Bunny bath was 2yrs back and today when i was carrying him and all, NO SMELL. NOT EVEN A TINY WINY BIT! How cool is that?! :)

I enyoyed myself well today and look forward to this Saturday with the girls again. Another Buffet dinner but this time, we don't have to self-cook and it's fine dining buffet :)
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School tomorrow :( DRATS!
First day for Accounts. And Business Law paper this Saturday! STUDY TIMEEE! ( I keep saying, no action) :)

OH WELL.,
I'm tired now. goood night everybodyyy!

PAPER WAS BAD. VERY BAD. VERY VERY BAD!

Well, i always say that for every paper i sit cause i don't actually study and when i pass its a miracle! hahahaha..
Oh well, another paper this Saturday which i DIE also must study cause it LAW, and that DANIEL said he will be setting the paper hard :(
But i will enjoy myself today first and then study and rot the week. Gonna do my hair this week. But not sure how to. Should i stick to purple? Should i do streaks of highlights? Should i go PINK?/RED?/BLUE?!!? I wanted to do green before but then again, liying did already. :(

If anyone has any ideas, let me know okay. You can either e-mail me or drop me a tag. Much appreciated! Cause i think i'm fussing more on my hair then on my studies.

My room air-con is spoiled again. Never come home for a while and then spoil already. See how pampered my air-con is? And she's now throwing tantrum cause no one used her for 5days!


OKAYs people, time to go and suft the net before heading to LALA Land, going to meet BGFF and Maddy!!


TTYS