<body>
ThLifeOfSHALIN
What you see or hear is not what you get, what you feel is JUST THAT!
information
shut up and sit down
I AM LEGEND :D
Name is Shalinda aka Miss Perfectionist!
An outcast from my Mum's Hormones, that's how i ended up in this Earth!
I like to laugh. even @ my own jokes which is totally pathetic!
17 coming 18 on 25th September :D
Twinklestars_25@hotmail.com (msn/facebook)
shalinda@ymail.com (e-mail)

I can bitch all i like here CAUSE it's MY blog, NOT YOURS!
I Love Shopping;
I Love Music;
I LOVE ARTS;
I LOVE MY DRAMAS - korean, taiwan, Hong Kong
I LOVE MEMORIES;
I LOVE CLUBBING;
I LOVE RED WINE;
I LOVE PARTIES;
I LOVE TRAVELLING
I LOVE BUFFET;
I LOVE MY FAMILY;
I LOVE SLEEPING
I LOVE MY BFFs
. anddd
Being With The People I Love
I LOVE FOOD!
I LOVE MY CURRENT LIFE
I LOVE MYSELF
I LOVE SO MANY THINGS....
AND I LOVE GODIVA..
AND GUCCI & LV.. NEED I SAY MORE!

And this space is JUST WAY SMALL for me to fit every single thing I LOVEEE

tagboard
scream your lungs

credits
its easy to clap
MondayMonday, March 30, 2009
Today's post ain't gonna be about me, cause i've nothing to blog about. My life is Shitless BORING TODAY! But i just recieved an email from one of my reader who became my email pal. His facing some kind of WOMAN CRY problem, and i thought you guys could also chip in to some some advise for this poor fellow here. Everyone's opinion might be different, so it will be good if Woman can explain Why? and Men can explain if they have come across any such incidents.
Please do email me @ Shainda@ymail.com. (You can mass sent this around) :)

Below is the attach email, but i censored some due to privacy of my sender.
.
.
Women cry a lot. I kid you not. They do. I’m surprised no scientist has used a woman's tears as an alternative source of energy. It’s as plentiful as the sun.

And to tell you the truth, I have no FLIPPING clue what it means or what to do when a woman cries.
First - let me explain this to women.

Crying isn't a man's best forte - let alone understanding when someone does cry. There are only a few reasons I can think of why a guy would cry.

1. Watching the Boston red sox win the World Series (whether it's tears of joy, or total shock - that's up to you)
2. Being responsible for your wife's credit card bill
3. Plucking just one nose hair
4. Throwing away a good can of spam
5. David Hasselhoff
6. And some weird disease that affects your tear ducts

...and um...yup, that's about it. Can't think of any other reasons.

But just recently - it has come to my attention that women "JUST CRY" sometimes. Yes. No reason. They just friggin CRY.

W T F!?

THAT MAKES ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE. Is there an excess aggregation of sodium based H20 in your skull that you need to release periodically?

Does your cheeks need to be washed and regular water doesn't do the deed? Do you find you get "high" off the blurry vision you get when crying? Are you thirsty? Your Pantene Pro-v Guava creme shampoo moisturizes your hair, but couldn't find something that moisturizes your eyelashes? What the heck is it?

The worst part is the conversation you have to try to understand.

crying girl: *sniff sniff*
me: what's wrong?
crying girl: nothing - nothing's wrong.

Analysis: ok - this makes no sense. It's like me having fruit punch oozing out of my skull and someone asking me if i'm ok and i say to them "nah - I'm fine." Basic HUMAN rule of thumb, if there's ANY type of liquid coming from your skull - something's up. So easily, my next thought is:

me: well, you're crying though, so surely something has to be wrong.
crying girl: no, nothing's wrong.
me: I don't get it then - you're just crying for no reason?
crying girl: nothing's wrong.

Analysis: Ah yes - the classic. We've seen this before. The classic yes means no, and no means yes thing. She's just afraid to tell you something. It's your time to shine and be compassionate and ask about what's really going on. So I ask:

me: do you just not want to tell me?
crying girl: no, I just need a 'good cry'
me: what the? a "good cry"?

Analysis: Since when is a cry any 'good'? That's like me urinating blood and saying "man! that was awesome! How satisfying was that!" Crying can't be good. When i think of crying, I think of only bad stuff - like Jesse from Saved by the Bell after she took caffeine pills, or Nancy Kerrigan grabbing her knee, or that time when I was 4 years old, I punched my uncle, but couldnt' reach his face and just punched the nearest thing around my height - ALL THE BAD STUFF!

So asking what a 'good cry' is was very important to me. And that's when it the big answer hit. The ultimate enigma. The one statement. That actually made the sphinx' nose fall off.

crying girl: sometimes, we just need to let it all out.

Analysis: !?!?!?!?!???!!??! How does that make any sense? I just need to let it all out. That's what we guys say about our beer gut or intonations that our digestive tract can perform - not about crying! It makes absolutely no sense!!!!! "LET IT ALL OUT" Bottom line - you don't "JUST CRY" just to "let is all out" in hopes you get a "good cry" - this is crazy talk!! Which is why every man can only come to one conclusion at the end of all of this:

me: omg - I knew it, you're a friggin alien.

That's right Shalinda, we're gonna have to chalk it up there with all the other weird alien rituals you all practice. From the sleeveless turtlenecks, the buying a million dollars worth of stuff from the 'sale' rack and thinking you're actually getting money back, the 3 inch sticks you walk on, and cutting your hair every time you have problems with the significant other. We're on to your alien behavior.

But nevertheless, we know why you invaded our planet. Although we may NEVER fully understand what this all means, we'll do our best to live harmoniously.

So as a token of peace and goodwill, we'll give you what you need most during this time and that's simply a shoulder to cry on. In fact, we'll give you two and throw in two arms as well.

Do women just cry for the hell of it? And what does a 'good cry' really mean? I really need help Shalinda. I don't want to suffer from woman traumatization. And recently, this has been happening around ALOT!
....................
So, as we can see, Mr XX is really in need, and although i can give him advises i don't think i'm in the right position due to the fact that i've never been in a relationship. So, all those peeps out there, please help Mr XX!
back to the top
SundaySunday, March 29, 2009
AWESOME WEEKEND
AWESOME SLUMBER
AWESOME SLACK DAY
AWESOME PIZZZZAA (NOT)!!!!


Went out yesterday for party session with the usuals. Was at Clarke Quay and then later to Orchard for Kumar show which then went to BGFF place. Just me and M. We talked and talked till we all fell asleep. And woke up at noon, had lunch and then carry on talking and talking. We played PARLOR.PARLOR. Or should i say Mani.Mani. hahaha! Just like small times where you use to play masak.masak, or family.family. or anything that comes to your mind when you were kids, we did that! Just that i played the manicurist, BGFF was the LAO BAN NIANG and then madeline was the customer and then we switch. Speak in our broken chinese + English = broken chinglish.. hahaha!
Then we all felt bored and had nothing to do, so we went over to... MY HOUSEEE! :)
Order Pizza Hut pizza and i tell you SERVICE SUCKS! Firstly, when i ordered, they didn;t tell me what combos side order promotion came with it. So, we order 2 regular and 4 pieces chicken. Which in actual case, the chicken came with a garlic bread for the same price i paid for the pizza. Next part came when our pizza didn't have the HOT SIGN that they keep advertising. So, we complain. (As usual, typical SINGAPOREANS :P ) And the stupid manager said that they will send another order again, BUT we have to return the previous set?!! WTH! Like hello, its your fault the pizza didn't have the sign on it! We were all planning for free pizzas!! So, we as usual, typical singaporeans, ate 2 slices each from both pizzas, and we pinch a little of the sausage and ham. So it became kind of little chart-chart!
Next came the next order, so i send Patric down at first, and then i felt something wasn't going to be right so i followed next, true enough, that stupid rider keep trying to call back to his outlet saying that our pizza was half eaten and is it alright to give! Pizza hut very rich what, WHY STINGE UNTIL LIKE THAT?! But while typing this, the word RECESSION comes to mind :), maybe ah, pizzahut is feeling the recession so much that they become stingy! But whatever it is, CUSTOMERS ARE ALWAYS RIGHT!!!
Anyway, although there were no free whole pizza, at least we got 4 slices each :)

This week, i'm going to enjoy my holiday! Going to pack my table neatly, clear my unnecessary junk, and prepare for school next monday! Boy, am i freaking out! I'm going to live sucha loner life. I don't know anyone. I'M BROKE SHITLESS and can't ask papa for money money. :(

Was walking the girls to the bus-stop and we were talking about holiday destination and NOW, i got the sudden urge to leave Singaopore. I WANT TO GO SOMEWHERE!!!!! I NEED A HOLIDAY GET-AWAY! I already made my new passport and i just want to fill it up! Ok, i'm dreaming a little too much huh!

I guess i need to hit the showers now. Adios!
back to the top
ThursdayThursday, March 26, 2009
How can i not love Daddy!! :)

Dad went on a shopping spree for us today! He bought us stuffs. At first when he came back and all, i thought i had gone back in time. - CHRISTMAS TIME! Anyway, he didn't just buy us stuff, but BRANDED stuff. I bet there was a big hole in his pocket. But he said, these were all needed and we should learn.
HE bought us towels each - GIORGIO ARMANI AND RALPH LAUREN. Each of us has a set. FIRST BOMB!
Then he bought me a blue ribbon RALPH LAUREN handbag. Though i would say its totally not my kind, but i just accept it with smile. Since he took the effort to buy us gifts. I also received an ARMANI toiletry bag. And a jewelry box from SK II. OHH. And a pouch, but i hated the design so i took off the chain. (That was my bomb).
Kathleen got herself the same as me, just that her bag was different. ( Third bomb.)
The boys got themselves, Van Diesel bags, and travel bags from Tommy Hilfiger. (BOMB.BOMB.)
Dad got Tina an ANNA SUI POUCH! DAMN STYLISH!
SO BOMB.BOMB.BOMB! Seriously no idea why all these, ALL OF A SUDDEN. But dad just said, we're growing up and we need to look after our things and look good. SO, who cares for all the WHY and all. I just am excited to use the stuff in the new house. Speaking of which, my job has already started. I'm going to go on IDEAS SPREE! Where, i'm going to find and collate ideas to present. Everyone is in charge of their own room. Just that i have more. Like the kitchen, Patric's room and the hall. But step by step and i know i will be okay. :)


School is starting for me in April. April 6th to be exact. Accounts would be my first module. Not forgetting i got Statistics exam in May which is my last attempt. fail it and i'm SCREWED! BIGGG TIME!

I've decided to be good neerdy girl starting from April. So going to make sure i don't idle my time away on Movies and Dramas. But study and study! This Saturday am going to enjoy myself MAX! BGFF & Maddy and myself having slumber party after everything. AWESOME! Alright. Plenty to do now. Gotta go prepare Quotas now.


Saturdayyyyy come QUICK!
back to the top
MondayMonday, March 23, 2009
Do those without a man really have to hang their heads in shame and be labeled as USELESS?
PFF. BULL-SHIT!!!

Its been exactly a week since i last blogged! Well, not that i was THAT BUSY not to have blog but instead i was jsut simply lazy to blog. And no idea what is wrong, but have been having really weird mood swings. Thank God, i'm mostly at home. Maybe its due to me being very hardworking these few days.

I'm back working for dad. Decided i should just help him at this time. He has been pretty busy and is not feeling well himself. And i kind of took more than allowance from him this month. And the best part of all is I'M BROKE AGAIN! I seriously have no money management. Thank God i was born into this family, imagine with this personality and i'm born in a less fortunate family. But then again, people who come in that family are usually people who can really save. LIKE THEY KNOW THE VALUE OF MONEY, unlike me! Been cabbing to work and back home and that kills me. Oh well. i'm now on break. NO WORK! YAY!

Actually besides work and work politics i have nothing to blog about. Dad is going to throw me into Accounting and Sorting Department soon. AND i totally don't like that idea. There will be less time in main office, no daddy lunch treat, and i don't know how am i going to fair. And i'm so scared that i might embarrassed myself, cause i SUCK AT Accounting!!!

Anywayyy, this week would be another great weekend. Meeting Jasmine tomorrow, going to get some stuff done, and then office this week and then PARTY FOR WEEKEND!!
..............................................

Just for Laugh

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home. He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed:

Dear Lord:
I go to work everyday and put in 8 hours while my wife merely
stays at home. I want her to know what I've gone through.
So please allow my her body to switch with mine for a day.
Amen!

God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish.

The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman.
He arose, cooked breakfast for his mate,
Awakened the kids, set out their school clothes, fed them breakfast,
packed their lunches, drove the children to school.
Came home and picked up the dry cleaning clothes,
took it to the cleaners, and stopped at the bank to make a deposit.
Went grocery shopping, then drove home to put away the groceries.
Paid the bills and balanced the check book, cleaned the cat's litter box,
and bathed the dog.

By then, it was already 1pm.
And he hurried to make the beds, do the laundry, vacuum, dust,
and sweep and mop the kitchen floor.
Ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument
with them on the way home. Set out milk and cookies and got the kids
organised to do their home work.
Then, set up the ironing board and watch tv while did the ironing.

At 4.30 pm began peeling potatoes, washing vegetables for salad,
breaded the pork chops and snapped fresh beans for supper.

After supper, cleaned the kitchen, ran the dishwasher, folded laundry,
bathed the kids, and put them to bed.

At 9 pm, was exhausted and, though daily chores weren't finished,
went to bed where he was expected to make love, which somehow
managed to get through without complaint.

The next morning, the man awoke and immediately knelt by the bed
and said:

"Lord, I don't know what I was thinking, I was so wrong to envy my
wife being able to stay home all day. Oh please, let us trade our body
back".

The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied:

"My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be happy to
change things back to the way they are. You'll just have to wait for
nine months though. Because you got pregnant LAST NIGHT".


AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! SEE, this are the kind of mentality of stupid men thinking that being a girl/woman is easy and all. Wait till they experience it then would they know. Shit, i got to go now, my drama on TV is awaiting for my arrival.
back to the top
SundaySunday, March 15, 2009
Loads to Update and Upload!
Before that, WANNA WISH MADELINE A VERY HAPPY 18TH BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!

So, this week has been really awesome!! With good/close friends by my side over the weekends just makes my life feel more worth living. SERIOUSLY, The amount of fun and madness can never be expressed with words. Here are some pics for the party session on Saturday!!
.
..
...


















AND ALL THESE WOULDN'T BE POSSIBLE IF IT WASN'T FOR MY LOVELY BGFF & BGFFBF!!!!!



...........................

And this is today's picture. Went to celebrate Maddy's birthday. Was suppose to be a well-plan surprise but then everything became impromptu. But still, all went well. :)
I guess the bottom line would be that M enjoyed herself. Had tea time @ Häagen-Dazs, dinner @ Timbre and drinks @ Ace!
Well spent time, managed to catch up on lost time, and i guess we would be meeting more *cross finger*! Probably, twice every month?! Oh well, everything went well, and i think i gotta be staying home these few days. Preety broke. Spend 100+ within 2 days. LIKE WOW! But then, all well-spent.
Alright, PICTURE TIMEEE..
.
.




























Fianlly all pics uploaded. Really thought its going to take years. Alright then. That's all for today.
Goodnight people!
back to the top
Sunday, March 15, 2009
TODAY,NO, YESTERDAY, ERM.. SATURDAY.. HAD A BLAST MAN!
DEFINITELY ONE OF THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE.

No words can express how much today means and how it all went, only the people present could say the endless fun we had! We went to chijmes, to drink, to watch the the football match - Liverpool vs Man United and to partyyy!
AND BOY did we enjoy ourselves to the max!!

Pictures to be uploaded sooon! Shall do it together with party tomorrow.
Alright. I'm tired now, going to hit the bed sooon!

goodnight!
back to the top
SaturdaySaturday, March 14, 2009
To think i have to blog....

I FEEL SUPER SHAGGED TO THE MAX THAT I'M GOING TO MAKE THIS A QUICK AND SNAPPY ONE!

Due to my question written on my previous entry, i'd received 6 e-mails! All from unknown people. So, i've been sitting at my computer from 10.30pm all the way till now. Replying to the e-mails. I'm not complaining here, cause i'm happy to see good response, and not people telling me that they encourage things like that to happen. Although T said, why can't these things happen?! World going crazy, people going crazy, and with these crazy people around, they spread their disease faster than any diseases spread.
I shall find a nice day where i'll sit and blog, as i'm still awaiting more replies :) then will i blog another post regards to the replies.

Alittlest collection 2 will be up this week, did the photo-shoot on Thursday. Thanks to my FAVOURITE TWO GFs, SOPHIA AND MADELINE, i photo-shoot tops that i've not worn for a while, due to my back problem :( Had lovely bbq treat from Aunty as well, (BGFF mum). Not forgetting our usual girl talk.

Well, busy day yesterday. And today will be also. I'll blog more tonight probably or tomorrow. LOOKING FORWARD TO THE WEEKEND with my girls.

and P/S. P/S. P/S. - AARON AKA BOBO/BOLIAO CHACHA MAN!
NO MATTER HOW DRUNK I AM, I WILL HOOK SOME CLUB/PUB MEN OKAYY! AND TO EVIDENCE THAT, LOOK, 18YRS OF MY LIFE AND HAVE I EVER BEEN ATTACH?! I'M AWAITING MR RIGHT. AND HE WILL COME, PROBABLY HE'S JUST IN COMA!
ONLY YOU WILL PICK GIRLS FROM BAR. AND TO ADD ON. IF I SEE YOU AT THE SAME BAR, SURE THING THAT I WILL PICK YOU UP, BRING YOU BACK TO MY HOUSE AND GET GARY TO ATTACK YOU. OH, AND CALL UNCLE TO COME AND FETCH WHAT WILL BE REMAINING OF YOU!
WA-HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (Don't try)
back to the top
ThursdayThursday, March 12, 2009
LA-LA-LA-LA-LA-,
LA-LA-LA-LA-LAAA,
LA-LA-LA-LA-LA-LA-LAAAAA
LALALALAH!
HAHAHA! RANDOM!

I manage to hunt some jobs down. I was just talking to Terrie and was telling her i need a job, and she reminded me something that i forgot.. WHY LOOK FOR JOB AGENCIES, OR ASK AROUND?! MUM can do all for me! Firstly, she's in a recuiting agency and secondly, it will be much faster as she's one of the LOBANG consultant. And thirdly, I don't have to share any of my salary with the company. SHIOK LAH! But as you all know, me and mum is not exacly close and all. And when she comes back we hardly talk and stuff, much say i ask for her help. So i was thinking on who should i summon to ask for help and all, and suddenly it felt like God gave me a chance.. I was downstairs watching tv 2hrs ago while everyone was already sleeping and she came home. Obviously the door was locked so she had to knock and i opened it for her. AND SHE STARTED THE CONVERSATION.. asking me what i was drinking, and if i wanted a doughnut and what studies am i doing now! STUNNED i was, and miraculously, i found myself in a conversation with her. So i also used the chance to further ask about her company recruiting terms and she asked why i was keen.. so i told her i needed a job and she jolly well said she would check and get back to me. Well, i told her i would either wanna do events which she said i will be paid $40 a day. (i felt it was goood) OR i wanted to do operator line. Just sit and answer phone calls. So either one.
OH MAN! I feel so happy. Well, i won't be completely till i FIND A JOB :) And when i told T about it, she claims that i'm happy not because i'm going to seek a job, but happy at the long departs on mum and me. Well, as i know myself i tend to care on my pride therefore i'm not going to own up. But whatever it is, I JUST WANT A JOBBBB!

And T commented on my previous post. The one towards the end, where i ask everyone on how they would react to such a scene, she said i sounded like an scrip reader or something. DO I? Well, i certainly didn't want to pull that off, but really wanted people to really think how would they really react. I did question T, and she said that whatever it is, the first time she knew her partner was cheating on her, she would have left and NEVER RETURN! But she said that if she was the woman, she would be happy and think that's it's alright.....
T, ah T, i think you're crazzy, and selfish but then again.. everyone will be like that. SELFLESS! Even when i first caught the movie - My Wife Got Married, i also taught to myself, WHY IS THE HUSBAND SO STUPID? LEAVE HER LAH. GO AND FIND SOMEONE WHO DESERVES HIM! and there in my mind, i wished i was the lady. She could marry both the man she loved, have a kid and still live a life of bliss. No obligation, no question asked, NOTHING. Just a life of 2 husbands who love her wholeheartedly and a kid they all love!
But then again, will that ever happen in reality?! HELL NO! Maybe the past, YESH! Where everyone is open and all, but in the current world that we live.. sad to say, everyone doesn't really take marriage very strongly. As and when divorce occurs. As and when men cheat, and worst of all, who said woman can't cheat. THEY DO!...NOWWW!

So i say, the world is so much more different then it was in the past. At some point, its good. You don't see woman at home, waiting for husband to come back and serve him. You don't see, divorce rates, the man goes out to cheat and the wife doesn't say anything cause she CAN'T!
But now, its equal. BOTH MEN AND WOMAN are equal. If men can go out and work, woman can too.
If woman can sit and look after the kids at home, men can too.
If the men cheats, woman shall not spare.

But then again, when a couple quarrel/ fight/divorce/separated..blah blah.. WHO SUFFERS -
..
THE KIDS!!!
back to the top
WednesdayWednesday, March 11, 2009
MANNNN! I'M BORED TO DEATH!

I really don't understand life at times, when i'm schooling, i get loads of distractions coming my way, like interesting/latest dramas seriels, or tempting jobs offer that daddy wouldn't allow, or how i will complain that i don't have enough time for myself and wish to stay at home all day long. And when i finally got the chance to do all the above, nothing comes of it. No interesting dramas, no interesting job offers, and i just stay home and ROT! And the ever funny thing is that, when i stay home, i tend to sleep before 4am and wake up by 12pm. Where else, when i'm schooling, i tend to sleep at 6am knowing i got school at 3pm and sometimes i wake up past school time. Life sure is difficult living it.
When you want a cab, there's none in sight, when you don't want, there's plenty.
When you're on cloud nine, you'll see other trees interested in you and when you leave cloud nine, all the trees disappears.
REALLY ONE HELL OF A FREAKSHOW WORLD!

Anyway, i'm going to enjoy this week i know. Thursday till Sunday plenty of activities. WHOOO. EXCITED! And starting from next week, i'm going to start looking for a part time job for 2 weeks. I really don't want to waste this opportunity dad has given me. Since young the only and ever place i've worked is in dad's company and its really boring. For those who says i'm crazy, you just don't understand. Never have i gotten the thrill of working such as my other friends. I don't have colleagues, but yet i get people who are scared to talk and mingle with me. I don't have lunch break, i have it ordered and delivered for me. I don't have the total boss feeling but a dad who is my boss and who wants 100% from me. The feeling is totally shit, and what is more shit is that, to know that this is my future, and i'm living the future now at such young age, that's shitty-ier! I know i can't choose my parents and the life i want to live in, and i also understand that some people just want to have this short-cut in life and can't, but why not just let me experience life before i turn 21?! I only left another 3yrs before i have to leave all the things behind and strive for the path the future has already in stored for me. So, why can't i live the way i want NOW at least. I don't think that is much to ask for. right?!
But then again, dad has agreed to my terms on working outside, but he comes with condition himself. Oh well, better than nothing. I will make sure that i will not regret in my choice. I tried one week in Gan Ma's office and i know that was to kill my desire to work outside but these adults has not yet seen the sprit of a coming eagle. WAHAHAHAH! I'll make sure i prove them wrong. So has for this week, i'm going to play HARD! REAL HARD!

Alittlest Collection 2 will be up next week hopefully. Will be putting our hearts this week to accomplish that. And then Friday with the vanillas and Saturday with the bunch to chill and have fun and now forgetting Sunday's party.
..................................................

Imagine you're the husband of this lady. What will you do?!........

Lady comes to your life as a colleague and you kind of fell for her the first time you met her. But you can't blame anyone cause all the males in the office also have eyes for her. She's just the woman all men dream off. And then one day, you guys made love and soon became lovers. Time pass, and you guys got to know each other more. The point to, her personalties is that she loves to drink till dawn and she takes life not as seriously as you do. She drinks with anyone and doesn't like to answer to anyone.To her, there's no need for marriage just has long you love each other. Many nights, you'll just try to reach her asking her what time she'll be back and when she comes home at dawn and you question her about her night, she will reply you that she went drinking with both girls and guys. Time after time, you just try to believe her thinking that you have trust in her. One night, you just lost it, you call her a million times but she didn't reply any. When she came back at dawn, you question her again, and then you found out that she went drinking with a guy and she not only did that but slept with him! And you guys broke up there and then....
6 weeks past. These 6 weeks was hell for you. You kept thinking of her and only her. And then your friend told you to hurry get married to her so that she will be "YOURS"! And then when she becomes a wife, she will more or less be settle and you don't have to worry, so you call her up and ask for a chance to reconcile. She declines at first but then is still in love with you somehow. After your patch up, you use all ways to ask her to marry you. You pester her day and night but her answer was no. Finally she said yes ONLY IF you allowed her to be as she is now! You agreed.

Marriage life is like a dream come true UNTIL, one day she declares her wish to marry another man. But yet, she doesn’t want a divorce with you as she loves both you and the new guy all the same. The only change is that she loves the new man as much and also wishes to marry him. You disagree all the way but then she goes ahead and marries her new man. She spends the weekend with you and weekdays with him. Hard to accept it, you still do, all for the name of LOVE.

One day, she tells you that she is pregnant. Happy at the news but full of doubt, you decide on a DNA test but was caught by her. She decides to leave you but you stopped it. Your child is to be shared with your wife's other husband so does your wife. Still you at loss of the identity of the child. WHAT WILL YOU DO?!

Send me an email @ shalinda@yahoo.com. And tell me what your reaction would be if you were him.


I'll so be looking forward to this!!
..................................................................

Alright, its already 3.31am and i think i feel the heavy eyes shutting soon. Shall blog more tomorrow. Until then!
back to the top
TuesdayTuesday, March 10, 2009
Helllo People. Haven't been blogging for quite some days. Was over at Aloha Changi to celebrate Granny's 70th Birthday. HAD fun! Friends were over and drinks were open and FUN WAS THERE.
Didn't stay over as the place was freaking overcrowded and there was no reason/people to give me reason to put up so i ended coming back home with Yvonne and Melvin.
Monday i didn't do much just sit at home and spend my time doing/preparing for this Sunday. I also caught a few K-movies. And one of them just touched me that i kept tearing and tearing. FREAKSHOW ME.

Everyone should go and watch "A MILLIONAIRE'S FIRST LOVE"! Its really touching. The story line is about a spoiled rich kid ,he’s arrogant, drives sporty cars, attends the big clubs, rides through school corridors on his motorcycle and - wait, that’s not typical at all is it? As his 18th birthday approaches he’s set to inherit his grandfather’s fortune, but that comes with a price, he has to earn his fortune. His grandfather lays down an ultimatum, which was to required to transfer to a new school in Gangwondo and graduate. Until then all access to his penthouse, cottage and credit cards is denied. Should he fail to graduate or drop out then he loses everything. With little choice he heads out to the countryside and a small town in which daily life is far removed from what he’s used to.
Shortly after settling into his new home he meets this lady, who just happened to run into him back in Seoul. They don’t exactly hit it off; he’s far too stubborn and cool for school, while she sees hope for him and sets out to make him see it for himself. As they eventually draw closer, thanks to a set of coincidences and school projects they learn more about one another, but soon a shattering revelation will change these people forever, or something.

Really should just go and watch! The ending is tragic but then again, its a movie on LOVE AND AWAITING FOR LOVE! MANNN!

I'm now freaking hungry, shall blog more later. :)
back to the top
SundaySunday, March 08, 2009
Today plan was screwed at first and then impromptu plan came up :)
My initial plan was to get up by 6am and then rush to send Gan Ma and Gan Die to airport and then later rush to office to clear some documents and later proceed to get my brows done and then facial and then mani/pedi... BUT THENNNNNN..
I woke up only at 12.20pm, and then it started raining around 1pm which left me lazy to go out of the house, SO I JUST ROT AT HOME, thinking of ways to self-do all my plans. Then BGFF called and that made me want to meet her, call her my god-fairy, or guardian fairy, whatever it was, it just sunddenly felt like i haven't meet her up recently. And my recently means a week, :) was also a feeling la. Anyways, i went ahead first to get my brows done and then to chinatown to get my nails, bgff did french which is nice, but i'm not sure if it still is as that 80% asian girl bought a top coat which says will help not to get nail chipped off. :I
Then we had good short chat with Jasmine and while waiting for her to knock off, i ate 4 slices of toast. NO KID MAN! No idea, but was super HUNGRY!
And just when we were about to go home, we saw a FISH SPA shop. BGFF has always been wanting to try Fish Spa, so we eventually did for $5. FREAKING CHEAP LAH! Now, i feel i did a full set of MANI AND PEDI which is more better than a classic.

Also, we sold away 4 peices of items today, busy sophia now.

Meeting the girls and their BFs in few hours time. Going for granny's birthday. MANNN! I'm just going to go there to eat and have fun with my girls, cause after all these are cousins and ando people who i barely interact with. SOOO, Friends will play better substitution.

Alright now, BIG DAY TODAY!
MORE REST NEEDED!!!!
back to the top
FridayFriday, March 06, 2009
Have not been blogging for days. SERIOUSLY this week is SUPER DUPER HECTIC! I wake up EVERYDAY before 7.30am, and i reach home around 6+,7pm. LIKE A REAL WORK LIFE! And after this week, i can say, be it at Dad's office or ANY office, it will sure be a FLOP! MAJORRR FLOP! SHALINDA + OFFICE = BIG NO.NO. :(

Seriously, after this week, i'm so sure never to try office. I'm actually thinking of zoo, but the thing is that the ZOO is pretty far from my place and me to travel there everyday is SIAO! Sure late EVERYDAY :)
Then i was thinking of teaching, but then i don't want to teach half-way and quit if i don't like it. Like its going to affect the kids. Teaching is one thing that you gotta hang on, NOT FOR YOURSELF BUT THE RESPONSIBILITIES YOU HAVE OVER THOSE YOUNG DEMONS :P So, don't wanna risk that.

HOW?! I'm actually thinking of rotting at home but playing Stocks. I think that will suit me more. I can drama and earn at the same time. But do you think i should take my year allowance all at a go?! What if it fails. This year i will be suffering the WORST economy any human is facing la!
HAIIZZZ. Seriously, i'm clueless. And this month is like a bomb to me. Have to spend on loads and loads of things. Things that are necessary! And things that cost. DIE LA!
.......
Grandma's birthday this Sunday, and i'm satisfied with myself SO FAR. Although i'm busy with work and all, i still manage to get the guest list done, the venue booked, food and cake ordered. So far, all is going well, i just pray nothing will mess up at the last minute or else Dad said he'll murder me :O

Also have been planning for my "house party" the following sunday. So excited for that. :D
............................
ALL THAT WAS TYPED AN HOUR AGO, BEFORE I WENT DOWN TO CHECK ON RESULTS :(
I'M DISAPPOINTED AND SPEECHLESS. WHAT IN THE WORLD IS WRONG WITH ME! ARRGGHH, NOT GOING TO BLOG ANYMORE, I NEED TO GIVE MYSELF SOME SPACE NOW.




:(
back to the top
TuesdayTuesday, March 03, 2009
Going to make this VERY SHORT cause its 3.34am and i'm awake uploading pictures and talking to L.
GOOD NEWS TO SHARE - DAD GOT ME A CANON 450D! Like random. All because i told him i wanted/needed to use his camera, didn't even in my dreams thought that he would get me a new one. like horrayy! i really love daddy TRUCK LOADS! Not just that he got me a camera, but he's always there fulfilling my wishes. Like a genie.. haha.

I'm very tired. EXTREMELY. I left only 3hrs to sleep before i got to get up and start a full energize day. So not looking forward to that. :(

Lots to update on, and i shall do that sometime.

Good morning people!
back to the top
MondayMonday, March 02, 2009
OMG!! I'm exhausted and will be for this ENTIRE WEEK! :( But all for good cause *)
Finally after weeks/month of preparations, we're now open for BUSINESS! People, please do come support - alittest.livejournal.com. Very unique and catchy stuff all at reasonable price. SO once again, SUPPORT Is the word! hahaha!

Anyways, we'll be helping/working for Gan Ma this week. Bonding work time. Excited yet not enthu. Excited that we're going to spend time and all, not enthu about the job. Basically my job is to research and research. I keep telling myself that's not that bad, but then still getting those negative thoughts. BAD.BAD!

Yesterday was the start for business. I even went to the temple to pray. HAHA. Not deliberately, but because dad wanted to go and pray for Tua Pek Gong birthday, so i thought i should go take a bit of a blessing huh. Honestly, i don't believe that God will help me excel, but i rather do it for keeping myself secure. Like after when i'm done with prayers, i have a sense of satisfactory feel.

Managed to book a chalet for Grandma's birthday. This paranoid dad of mine, wanted a BIG Chalet but i think will end up with little guests. As the next day would be a work/school day. And the best part of all is that we're renting the chalet from Sunday to Monday and till now, NO ONE will be overnighting. How cool right?! A big chalet with 3 bedroom and an area that can fit 40 person in the chalet and 120 outside will not be having anyone to stay over. MAN! Wasted la. But i think i will find some to stay over with me. After all, its a chalet man!

Alright, its 1.15am now, i'm yawning and yawning and still waiting for replies. But i guess i'll do the replies tomorrrow instead. Gotta wake up early to prepare. :P

Goodnight
back to the top