Nothing last forever . . .
Been Long since i last blogged! Indeed this blog is dying and need emergency treatment or its heart will just STOP, LIKE THIS BLOG! During this period of not blogging, many things happen and still happening..
- A friend met with an accident (Fine now, in good recovery mode)
- Am planning to start my own business (manicure parlor or a boutique)
- A girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend ( Well, you'll think its no big deal cause Relationships are unpredictable, but still its really scary! Shall come to that.)
- Accounts module is FINALLY OVER, except for the exam! (FREAKSHOW)
- Haven't been revising anything at all. But will be having a LONG break (HOPEFULLLY)
- Alittlest moving, but SLOW
and more.more, just can't do all the recalling all at once now, but yesh, many good and bad things have happen during these period.. Have been meeting up with close pals, although we use to hang out every weekend as a big bunch, it has decreased to the usuals, BGFF, BGFFBF and me. But i'm sure we'll all meet up sooon and catch up (:
Well, i'm not going to blog about every single thing that i have been busy with, but the one thing that has been taking up most of my time is definitely the planning of my new venture. And i also wanna give credit to Jasmine and Sophia for helping me and at the same time supporting me. Initially, i was thinking of opening a manicure parlor, not that this plan is not in service, just that i'm also looking to venture into a boutique with a friend. Or i may also be doing both. So, this period have all been on planning, sourcing and searching. Hopefully all goes well.
Now, for some self-telepathy discussion.
I really feel that relationships are indeed scary. It's all nice at the start, challenging in the middle and SCARY AND UGLY IN THE END! To me, i've always the thought of wanting a very nice end off relationships. But i guess not many can do that. Like i mention, my girlfriend just broke off and have moved on with another guy. Although the whole process of she coming on another relationship was fast, but personally i feel that has long that she don't think that it was a hasty decision and that she will not regret, then It's fine. And the most important of all is that she can't have the slightest feeling for her ex.
But to people, its different. It's hard for them to accept the fact that she move on as fast. Is also hard when the ex is still in LOVE with her and all. I mean, come on, this is the story of two person, now that its close, on with the next, why stick to the same page and not carry on with the other chapters. Why WASTE TIME? Who knows that the characters mights come back in the following chapters? Who knows what will happen till the whole book ends (That's when a person dies, their personal story book dies as well), but is seriously not fair for anyone besides the lead people to judge. I mean is also impossible to NOT JUDGE, cause even i do my own analysis, but who are we to pin this people of their behavior? This just involves two hands clapping and it just didn't beat the way it was suppose to, but why are all the extra hands clapping over them? Wouldn't that make that more unbearable and hurt more people?
What i don't understand is that, in a relationship, it only needs the concern from the two people involve. Why is so many people involve and still judging? I just need to also stress that this discussion is not just on this particular friend, but anyone! As for my "friend", all i can say is that, i do have my own theory to how i judge this situation of her and her guys. But then again, if she is happy and will be happy with her decision, then i will just say " I AM HAPPY FOR HER"!
Is really very hard finding the right one. And i found this joke that i wanna share, which i think that it's funny and true :)
Love & Marriage
A student ask a teacher,
"what is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question,
go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi
and come back.
But the rule is: you can go throught them only once
and cannot turn back to pick.
"The student went to the field, go thru first row,
he saw one big padi,but he wonders....
may be there is a bigger one later.Then he saw another bigger one...
but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the padifield,
he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw,
he know he has missed the biggest one,
and he regreted.So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...that is love,
you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise,
you have already miss the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.The teacher said,
"in order to answer yourquestion,
go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn
and come back.But the rule is: you can go throught them only once
and cannot turn back to pick.
"The student went to the corn field,
this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake,
when he reach the middle of the field,
he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy,
and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn....
you look for one that is just nice,
and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get....
that is marriage .. . . .
Well, i think i've gotten the remaining thoughts in my head down in the blog. Finally, i don't have any peices left in my head. This whole chapter of relationship should also come to an end already.
Patric having chinese tomorrow and i really should sleep now. Gotta get up and give tution tomorrow morning!